Let's get rid of that word 'love'. What you have is security and you don't want to leave it. That's what controllers and abusers exploit. She isn't going to change; you can only change yourself by taking a leap into the unknown by leaving that situation. What really eats at you is that you haven't made the decision to do so. But do you want to get deeper into this? Get married and have to divorce to make your life better? The deeper you get, the harder it is to get out.
My Controlling GF
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Let's get rid of that word 'love'. What you have is security and you don't want to leave it. That's what controllers and abusers exploit. She isn't going to change; you can only change yourself by taking a leap into the unknown by leaving that situation. What really eats at you is that you haven't made the decision to do so. But do you want to get deeper into this? Get married and have to divorce to make your life better? The deeper you get, the harder it is to get out.