My closest friends keeps hurting me again and again

i have fear to live alone always thought i cant do anything without my friends and support what should I do.. why i fear i want friends but they just used me for money and things then behave like they didn't do anything

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  • You must conquer your fear of loneliness, and embrace solitude! Learn to be self sufficient. Read about Stoicism.

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  • they are not your friends let alone "close firends". Drop them and find new friends.

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    • i felt the same they are using me but they are my school buddys so i thought i should forgive them and start again but nothing change after some day they do that again insult me in front of new people my age is 30 i dont think at this age can make new frnds i just want to share my feeling s

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  • They are not your friends. They've figured out that they can use you for their own ends.

    Real friends support you emotionally and do not take advantage of you.

    Time to move on.

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    • i felt the same they are using me but they are my school buddys so i thought i should forgive them and start again but nothing change after some day they do that again insult me in front of new people my age is 30 i dont think at this age can make new frnds i just want to share my feeling s

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      • I'm in my mid 60's and can still make new friends...

        Why not give it a try.

        I suggest that you find some activity groups in your area that do things you like to do; or even if you don't know but they sound like they might be fun.

        Find groups you can enjoy being with... and you will also find new friends.

        I wish you well with this,

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  • Dont let them take your money then and get some better friends. Problem solved

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    • i felt the same they are using me but they are my school buddys so i thought i should forgive them and start again but nothing change after some day they do that again insult me in front of new people my age is 30 i dont think at this age can make new frnds i just want to share my feeling s

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