My brother never wants to hangout with me, movies etc. anymore

88% Normal
8 Comments

I am 28, Bro is 23

Ever since he got a new gf from 2nd year college, he barely hangs out with me, rather go to the movies with his friends and girlfriend, doesn’t even bother to invite me even to tag along. Rarely talks to me, keeps to himself in his room. We don’t fight at all but seems he lost interest in me as a friend? What you think?

When he was single, I always let him tag along with my friends and my girlfriend but he doesn’t do the same now that he is in my position. Also if I invite him to watch a movie, he makes a dumb excuse and just watches it anyways with his friends etc.

Voting Results
88% Normal
Based on 17 votes (15 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 8 )
  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    I can't be bothered with family. They always manage to make you feel like shit.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    4
    4
      -
    • brutus
      4 years ago

      This

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      1
      1
  • brutus
    4 years ago

    Be grateful that you two are not fighting, I'm after my siblings' blood. It appears siblings do grow apart with age.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • BlazeHazard
    4 years ago

    U havr to compete with his gf
    U know how a girl can prove herself better than others is to help the guy with his....u know what i mean
    Make him feel ur body everything will be in your control

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    I barely speak to any of my siblings. I can't even remember how old they are, I have to sit there and work it out. I don't know what jobs they do or if they have partners.

    Sounds like you guys were close though. That probably means that he'll come back to you to hang out again. You just have to wait for him to get over the honeymoon phase with his new girlfriend.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    I'm in the opposite position. I used to not see my brother much at all it would be rare. Now he has a girlfriend and is a step dad and I started seeing him almost daily. He even past few days has called me and wanted to facetime which is so unlike him, been nice to actually see him. Girlfriend gives off some hard psycho vibes tho but he seems happy so I'll deal with her.

    Maybe if the relationship is fresh he may possibly be wrapped in that at the moment? Give it some time and maybe talk to him about it if it seriously bothers you. I see mine when I see mine we don't really hangout typically even tho he just asked me to a concert.. again not like him. I guess relationships change people.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Neither do either of mine, get over it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    Talk to him about it. But you've got to let him do his own thing. Y'all will always be brothers.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0