my brother hates me and humiliates me- Is this normal?

dear lotusgirl

you don't have to be so harsh- 3 hour shower??
i'm not THAT bad, 20 minute shower will do.
and i've said (did u read) that i try to make more effort to improve my hygene.
as i stated in my letter, i've had emotional and mental issues, so i haven't worked more than couple of weeks here and there for the last 10 years.
but i agree with you about the moving out and getting a job part- even though i have no skills and am not good at anything useful so i don't know what i can do.
i get social security which is pennies but i don't spend a lot, i'm very practical and fruitful so it usually lasts the month through.