Thank you very much.
I kind of feel like I'm in a box here. He says that relationships are all about compromise and that I should find a female costume we can bot agree on. I can't find one. I kind of feel like I'd be in the wrong and I'd be disregarding his feelings if I went as a guy. I don't know. I feel torn. He also seems to get suicidal over me wanting a dildo. We tried using sex restraints as a compromise, but I lost interest in those and want a dildo again. I can't have that either. Sorry for bothering you.
I once had an ex bawl his freaking eyes out over me saying, "I think I want to dye my hair." I wasn't even talking about the permanent dye either. He said that it was too much change.
My boyfriend won't let me cosplay in guy's clothes. IIN?
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Thank you very much.
I kind of feel like I'm in a box here. He says that relationships are all about compromise and that I should find a female costume we can bot agree on. I can't find one. I kind of feel like I'd be in the wrong and I'd be disregarding his feelings if I went as a guy. I don't know. I feel torn. He also seems to get suicidal over me wanting a dildo. We tried using sex restraints as a compromise, but I lost interest in those and want a dildo again. I can't have that either. Sorry for bothering you.
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In all the honesty ... None of this sounds good :/
A relationship is all about compromise, but you should never allow your insecurities to control your you.
Thing is, you are teaching this guy that he can control you and tell you what to do/what to not do.
None of this is abnormal, you want a dildo and you want to cosplay.
It isn´t as if you want to shave your hair off and tattoo half your face.
"Listen, I love you and I respect you but I want to own a dildo and I want to cosplay"
Your needs and desires are not weird, if you let him get away with this he might even add more things to boost his lack of confidence.
Are you allowed to be with friends? talk to people?
I once had an ex bawl his freaking eyes out over me saying, "I think I want to dye my hair." I wasn't even talking about the permanent dye either. He said that it was too much change.