It doesn't neccessarily mean that he doesn't find you attractive. If you had big boobs, he probably wouldn't be as interested in them, because he could get them all the time from you. He wants what he can't get because he can't get it, but that doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.
You need to make sure he knows how you feel if you are going to change anything in him. Just come straight out and ask him "If you love me, why do you watch porn of women who look nothing like me?". Only then will he realise that he's hurt your feelings. If he loves you, that should be enough to make him watch it less. If it isn't, try as many ways as you can think of for him to get the message first before you leave him. He almost certainly doesn't even know how you feel.
My boyfriend watches big busty porn and I'm small?
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It doesn't neccessarily mean that he doesn't find you attractive. If you had big boobs, he probably wouldn't be as interested in them, because he could get them all the time from you. He wants what he can't get because he can't get it, but that doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.
You need to make sure he knows how you feel if you are going to change anything in him. Just come straight out and ask him "If you love me, why do you watch porn of women who look nothing like me?". Only then will he realise that he's hurt your feelings. If he loves you, that should be enough to make him watch it less. If it isn't, try as many ways as you can think of for him to get the message first before you leave him. He almost certainly doesn't even know how you feel.