he could be putting this out there because he is planning on breaking up with you....men are either into you or they are not into you...a man that is into you will not entertain conversation of breaking up with you or being friends....he will never discuss this....he's either with you 100% or he's breaking up with you (and setting up the seeds of a breakup by talking about it) ....also prematurely agreeing to be friends if you break up is not being realistic....if perhaps at the time of the breakup it was on mutual terms with nothing negative (say you grow apart, simply have different priorities) then it is possible to be friends but only after a period where you are really broken up and doing your own thing (because most people know that a lot of people try getting back together and screwing around when they are still in constant contact with their ex after the breakup)....on the flip side it is not possible to be friends if your ex screwed you over/cheated on you, physically/mentally/financially screwed you over---people like this are never your 'friends' no matter how much they try to be to appease their guilty consciences for treating you like crap by telling the world 'you are still friends', and these are the people you cease all contact with....I'm sure you didn't want to hear all this, but women need to hear the truth every now and then no matter how young or old you are....
my boyfriend wants to be in my life as a friend even if we breakup!
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he could be putting this out there because he is planning on breaking up with you....men are either into you or they are not into you...a man that is into you will not entertain conversation of breaking up with you or being friends....he will never discuss this....he's either with you 100% or he's breaking up with you (and setting up the seeds of a breakup by talking about it) ....also prematurely agreeing to be friends if you break up is not being realistic....if perhaps at the time of the breakup it was on mutual terms with nothing negative (say you grow apart, simply have different priorities) then it is possible to be friends but only after a period where you are really broken up and doing your own thing (because most people know that a lot of people try getting back together and screwing around when they are still in constant contact with their ex after the breakup)....on the flip side it is not possible to be friends if your ex screwed you over/cheated on you, physically/mentally/financially screwed you over---people like this are never your 'friends' no matter how much they try to be to appease their guilty consciences for treating you like crap by telling the world 'you are still friends', and these are the people you cease all contact with....I'm sure you didn't want to hear all this, but women need to hear the truth every now and then no matter how young or old you are....