Lots of people always assume that any guy who's in a heterosexual relationship and is willing to consider an MFM threesome must be in denial about being bi or gay.
That's true sometimes, but there are lots of other reasons guys will fantasise about this scenario.
Some guys are into it because they just love to see their woman getting off. Some guys are into it because it's sorta like being in a porn video with their woman as the star. Some guys are into it because there's some weird shit going on in their head where jealousy makes them crazy-horny. And there are other possible reasons too.
Being the centre of an MFM threesome is a pretty common fantasy for women, and some couples share this fantasy while having sex or get into role playing it. But going from fantasy to reality doesn't always work out so well, and the couple really need to talk this through in a calm way before they do anything in the real world. CDmale4male's post has some very good advice on this.
You questioning if his interest in this means he doesn't love you is, I suspect, a pretty common initial reaction for women when guys suggest this. The odds are that you were brought up to believe that the ideal is one guy-one woman, and any woman who loves her man will be faithful to him and vice versa. But now here he is, suggesting that another guy fuck you, so that must mean he doesn't value you or really care about you.
I wonder if you haven't quite grasped the fact that, for a lot of guys, there's sex... and then there's love. Many guys tend to compartmentalise the two things, whereas it's most common for women to see the two as inextricably linked. (And thus the classic post-affair scene where the guy protests, "But it was only sex!" while the woman is deeply emotionally wounded by what he's done.)
While your boyfriend is clearly very interested in this scenario, it's not uncommon for guys to suddenly realise once they're actually looking at the reality that they can't deal with the jealousy. And if your potential 'other guy' is extremely well-endowed, this could be an additional challenge for your boyfriend to overcome; lots of guys are far more insecure about the size of their penis than they're willing to admit - even to themselves.
If you're open to the idea - and it sounds like you are - then I suggest proceeding very cautiously. You may feel embarrassed about talking about this when you're not turned-on, but you really need to have a calm, rational discussion if you want to minimise the chances of the experiment messing up your relationship. In particular, you need to establish the ground rules of what you're both comfortable with and what's out of bounds, and you should agree that either one of you can call a halt at any point and the other will respect that. And, of course, at some point you need to get the 'other guy' involved, and he needs to agree to the same rules.
Finding that other guy might prove more difficult than you think (involving your ex would very obviously create a huge emotional minefield). While there's no shortage of guys who are very interested in fucking a woman, a lot of guys are hesitant to consider what some idiots call the "devil's threesome" because it involves being naked with another guy in a sexual situation and <gasp of horror!> that means it's possible another guy might touch their dick at some point, and if that should ever happen, they know they will immediately turn gay.
I have seen other girls on here saying mfm threesomes are the best there’s no better feeling than pleasuring 2 men at the same time especially when they both are cuming inside you so I have heard. I told my boyfriend if we had a mff 3 way that I wouldn’t want the girl touching him I just don’t feel comfortable with it he can grab a boob and her ass a little but I wouldn’t want her near his dick. Ideally he said he would love to have my ass sitting on his face and a girl down there blowing him or sitting on his dick but I said absolutely not I would rather suck him while she eats my pussy or my ass or something. When we talk about mfm he seemed pretty open to anything he just said he wouldn’t want another guys cum in my mouth which I was already fine with as it is lol. He said he’d love to sit back on a chair while I blow him and another guy fucks me from behind. Like I had said before my boyfriend has an average dick and he knows that he’s comfortable but he wants to see me with another big dick because my last boyfriend had one. It sounds to me like he really just wants to see me get fucked and makes me wonder if he really loves me he’s never had a 3 some before so he says and he said I’m the first he’s even considered don’t know how to take that..
My boyfriend wants a 3 some with another guy..
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Lots of people always assume that any guy who's in a heterosexual relationship and is willing to consider an MFM threesome must be in denial about being bi or gay.
That's true sometimes, but there are lots of other reasons guys will fantasise about this scenario.
Some guys are into it because they just love to see their woman getting off. Some guys are into it because it's sorta like being in a porn video with their woman as the star. Some guys are into it because there's some weird shit going on in their head where jealousy makes them crazy-horny. And there are other possible reasons too.
Being the centre of an MFM threesome is a pretty common fantasy for women, and some couples share this fantasy while having sex or get into role playing it. But going from fantasy to reality doesn't always work out so well, and the couple really need to talk this through in a calm way before they do anything in the real world. CDmale4male's post has some very good advice on this.
You questioning if his interest in this means he doesn't love you is, I suspect, a pretty common initial reaction for women when guys suggest this. The odds are that you were brought up to believe that the ideal is one guy-one woman, and any woman who loves her man will be faithful to him and vice versa. But now here he is, suggesting that another guy fuck you, so that must mean he doesn't value you or really care about you.
I wonder if you haven't quite grasped the fact that, for a lot of guys, there's sex... and then there's love. Many guys tend to compartmentalise the two things, whereas it's most common for women to see the two as inextricably linked. (And thus the classic post-affair scene where the guy protests, "But it was only sex!" while the woman is deeply emotionally wounded by what he's done.)
While your boyfriend is clearly very interested in this scenario, it's not uncommon for guys to suddenly realise once they're actually looking at the reality that they can't deal with the jealousy. And if your potential 'other guy' is extremely well-endowed, this could be an additional challenge for your boyfriend to overcome; lots of guys are far more insecure about the size of their penis than they're willing to admit - even to themselves.
If you're open to the idea - and it sounds like you are - then I suggest proceeding very cautiously. You may feel embarrassed about talking about this when you're not turned-on, but you really need to have a calm, rational discussion if you want to minimise the chances of the experiment messing up your relationship. In particular, you need to establish the ground rules of what you're both comfortable with and what's out of bounds, and you should agree that either one of you can call a halt at any point and the other will respect that. And, of course, at some point you need to get the 'other guy' involved, and he needs to agree to the same rules.
Finding that other guy might prove more difficult than you think (involving your ex would very obviously create a huge emotional minefield). While there's no shortage of guys who are very interested in fucking a woman, a lot of guys are hesitant to consider what some idiots call the "devil's threesome" because it involves being naked with another guy in a sexual situation and <gasp of horror!> that means it's possible another guy might touch their dick at some point, and if that should ever happen, they know they will immediately turn gay.
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I have seen other girls on here saying mfm threesomes are the best there’s no better feeling than pleasuring 2 men at the same time especially when they both are cuming inside you so I have heard. I told my boyfriend if we had a mff 3 way that I wouldn’t want the girl touching him I just don’t feel comfortable with it he can grab a boob and her ass a little but I wouldn’t want her near his dick. Ideally he said he would love to have my ass sitting on his face and a girl down there blowing him or sitting on his dick but I said absolutely not I would rather suck him while she eats my pussy or my ass or something. When we talk about mfm he seemed pretty open to anything he just said he wouldn’t want another guys cum in my mouth which I was already fine with as it is lol. He said he’d love to sit back on a chair while I blow him and another guy fucks me from behind. Like I had said before my boyfriend has an average dick and he knows that he’s comfortable but he wants to see me with another big dick because my last boyfriend had one. It sounds to me like he really just wants to see me get fucked and makes me wonder if he really loves me he’s never had a 3 some before so he says and he said I’m the first he’s even considered don’t know how to take that..