My boyfriend wants a 3 some.. kind of..

steal a mannequin from macys

I reckon most men who want threesomes with two women are turned on by being the centre of attention, so I don't see how a sex toy would fulfil his fantasy.

Oh, and by the way, many men in threesomes aren't the centre of attention for long because the women will soon be having such fun together they'll forget he's even there!

No.

Go for it and then insist that he does one with two men and you. I think that would be fair. I have done both and loved them both sex is great and thinking of fun things to do only makes it better.

It’s the first sign the seven year itch is coming. He’s gonna make a break for it really soon.

The sex toy might make for an interesting event for him... but that is not what he wants.

Threesomes are interesting and can be a total turn on or a turn off - for all 3 partners.

If you consider this you need to ensure that you are comfortable with the lady (you have as much and perhaps more say on who the other partner is). Also, don't do it unless you are comfortable with it - and with it continuing (and he sleeping with the other lady without you present as well).

I agree with RoseIsabella that there must be a ballance in permissions. If you OK a FMF threesome. Will he OK a MFM threesome for you?

My own situation where when I got married the expectation was that my wife would be my only partner. That didn't work well as I assumed I would not need what I've always had once I got married. I was wrong: I've always had multiple active partners my entire adult life - I'm naturally poly - and think poly. My wife and I spent 6 months in sex counseling to sort things out (hardest thing I have ever done in my life).

In the end once my poly nature was confirmed; then it took another 6+ months to work out an agreement on how it would work. Every permission I have my wife has with the exception that we have some unique sex fantasies. We can have our sex fantasies - its just they are different.

There is a strict set of rules and expectations on how it all works that covers a wide range of issues ranging from qualifications of partners, testing requirements, STDs, pregnancy and children, etc... including abnormal situations that could come up in life and were various rules are changed (what if you really are stranded in a survival situation... Your chance of survival is actually better if you pair up. So come home safe some day and no issue about your partners or children - we can make them fit in, and its unlikely you will have the ability to STD test in a survival situation, etc.).

I suggest you think things through before opening your marraige. But, It's OK to open your marriage once you have considered all the factors and agreed to some rules on how it would work. NOTE - WARNING: There is massive evidence that open marriages with rules can work long term - and open marriages without solid rules have a high rate of failure.

I wish you well with this,

Don't do anything for him that you are not comfortable with, and don't give him permission to be with other women. People who want this sort of thing tend to be selfish, and self centered.

I guess if you wanted you could tell him that the only way you would ever have a FMF threesome with him would be if he was okay with you having a MFM threesome. I'm not advocating for any sort of threesome at all, but it would be interesting to see where he stands. Also I'm a firm believer that women shouldn't allow men to have anal sex with them unless they get to peg the guy first. I'm not really into pegging anyone, but I think it's disgusting the way a lot of men seem to be so entitled about certain sexual things. The problem is that a lot of these guys watch too much damn porn. I don't respect men, or women who watch a lot of pornography as a general rule. Pornography teaches people to objectify others, especially women, and to view other people as objects.

I'm a firm believer in never doing anything, or allowing anyone to do anything to me that is not reciprocal. I believe in respect, and equality.

It's not really a threesome. Well you can make it better with putting a blindfold on him.

This is severely abnormal on so many levels, but I googled who Farrah Abraham is and found she’s a 16 And Pregnant star which adds a whole new level of warpedness. Don’t do it.

Does he want FMF or MFM?

Just get him a hooker or even two if you don’t want to participate

Oh come on lol that aint a treesome.

I wonder which 2 of her 3 holes the guys put their dicks in? I bet she wished another man was there to plug her third hole.

You could agree to a fmf threesome as long as he is is OK with doing a mfm threesome first where he watches while the other dude pounds you into complete multiorgasmic satisfaction and then he blows and is fucked in the ass by the other dude while you watch.
Then tell him that you know a guy with a 9" dick that you think would accommodate the arrangement. Further tell him that it would really fulfill your needs and if he really loved you he would agree to it.
That should discourage him from ever bringing up the subject again.
Of course if he enthusiastically agrees to it, I guess you will have to go through with with it.

I’m sure it won’t satisfy his fantasy completely but I know it will get him off completely lol. The pussy mold came in and we’ve used it tbh I think it’s hot it’s just a toy that he sticks his dick in it feels great for him and he has been amazing at eating me out lol. I told him if he has a fake pussy I need a fake dick so I got one and have been sucking it and pretending to jerk it off while getting fucked and it’s a rush let me tell you lol can only imagine the real thing but I’m
Sure neither of us will experience that for now this works lmao

From a guys perspective, a girl who gets her boyfriend a pussy mould of his favourite pornstar for his birthday is a keeper for sure.

If you care enough to by him something so personal he should be very happy to have such an understanding girlfriend.

It is of course your choice whether you wish to buy him such an item.