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so one day my boyfriend and i were out for dinner then we went back home he wanted to have sex and i said no i do not want so plz guys vote
Gods sake, there is absolutely no context here, so what the hell would we be voting for? Was it going to be your first time with him and you're not emotionally ready yet? Have you already started having sex and didn't feel like it that night? Are you a strict Christian? Were you feeling sick? Did you have an argument? Are you worried he's not serious about you? Wtf is the context!
Is it normal for you to say no? Yeah, if you're not ready he has to respect that.
...What a silly question.
Why wouldn't it be normal? You didn't want to have sex, so you said you didn't want to have sex :/ I don't get why you felt you had to ask this.
It's not normal to not want to have sex with your boyfriend after having dinner. I mean.. He sat there all night for you and probably paid for it all and you can't even open up your legs when he wants to.
So it's one person in a relationship that decided when they are going to fuck?
Isn't that how it usually works? One person comes on stronger than the other. One person has to make the initial move. Shit doesn't happen in real life like the movies. There isn't this equal attractive force that just brings two people together. That's romanticism BS supreme
Now you read me wrong :P
It takes at least two people to fuck, and those involved in it should be the ones that agree on it.
One does make the initial move, but you are not forced to have sex with someone because he took you out to dinner :P
Of course it does. But it's rarely an equal come on. Like one person is watching tv, and the other comes up and starts getting close, or one is trying to fall asleep and the other starts getting touchy feely. It's usually not a totally equally magnetic thing. But when it is, it's good lol.
Well, he said "Its not normal not wanting to fuck after having dinner" and that was what I replied to.
Reading your other reply no, as a woman I do not expect my man to pay for my meal. But when he pays for stuff it´s NOT because he expects sex.
How do I know? I´m more or less a sex-addict and he knows that regardless of who pays I´ll still be diving for his cock first chance I get.
How do I down vote this? She doesn't owe him sex just because he did something nice for her. Newsflash, it's still her body.
Aren't gender rolls just HILARIOUS? Men are expected to pay for dinner by girls, but aren't allowed to have expectations of their own. Next time he takes her out, and the check comes, just say "I don't feel like it tonight-" then get up and leave her there.