Okay a guy using a dildo doesn’t necessarily mean he’s gay or bi, but even if he is, I really hope you’re not uncomfortable just because he might be gay. Some guys just like ass play or whatever because all men have a g spot in their ass. What I would be concerned about is the possibility of him recording it. He might be posting it on a porn site or sending it to someone else. I would just ask him about it nicely. You should be able to tell if he’s lying if you’ve been with him long enough. If he’s honest with you, you should consider helping him out if you’re up for it. I mean help him out with maybe fingering him or some shit. Maybe even fuck him with a strap on. It’s really up to you how you handle the situation but I wouldn’t break up with him unless you know for a fact he’s recording it and other people are seeing it. I don’t think the possibility of him being bi is a good reason to leave him. He might just be confused or experimenting or bored with his sex life. He might be embarrassed and that’s why he’s not telling you things. If I were you, I would be open minded and understanding. Tell him you still love him and you don’t care that he does it, but are just wondering why he does it and why he doesn’t want you to know about it and then tell him that you would help him out with his desires if he wants. The only thing about this that would be a deal breaker for me personally is the possibility of him recording it and showing it to other people. If I were you I would look through his search history on his phone to see if he’s uploading it to a porn site or live-streaming or something. Does he make a suspicious amount of money that is unexplained?
I wouldn’t mind if my boyfriend was gay or bisexual! I fully support LGBTQ+ I was just concerned about the recording stuff that you mentioned. Also he never really speaks about money but he seems to buy himself a lot of lavish stuff, even paying for expensive dinners. I always thought that his job just paid him well but your comment got me thinking about it.
Ever since we’ve been dating he’s been buying expensive things. He doesn’t give me much information about his job, just telling me that he works in an office and gets paid very well.
My boyfriend uses my dildos? He said he was straight?
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Okay a guy using a dildo doesn’t necessarily mean he’s gay or bi, but even if he is, I really hope you’re not uncomfortable just because he might be gay. Some guys just like ass play or whatever because all men have a g spot in their ass. What I would be concerned about is the possibility of him recording it. He might be posting it on a porn site or sending it to someone else. I would just ask him about it nicely. You should be able to tell if he’s lying if you’ve been with him long enough. If he’s honest with you, you should consider helping him out if you’re up for it. I mean help him out with maybe fingering him or some shit. Maybe even fuck him with a strap on. It’s really up to you how you handle the situation but I wouldn’t break up with him unless you know for a fact he’s recording it and other people are seeing it. I don’t think the possibility of him being bi is a good reason to leave him. He might just be confused or experimenting or bored with his sex life. He might be embarrassed and that’s why he’s not telling you things. If I were you, I would be open minded and understanding. Tell him you still love him and you don’t care that he does it, but are just wondering why he does it and why he doesn’t want you to know about it and then tell him that you would help him out with his desires if he wants. The only thing about this that would be a deal breaker for me personally is the possibility of him recording it and showing it to other people. If I were you I would look through his search history on his phone to see if he’s uploading it to a porn site or live-streaming or something. Does he make a suspicious amount of money that is unexplained?
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I wouldn’t mind if my boyfriend was gay or bisexual! I fully support LGBTQ+ I was just concerned about the recording stuff that you mentioned. Also he never really speaks about money but he seems to buy himself a lot of lavish stuff, even paying for expensive dinners. I always thought that his job just paid him well but your comment got me thinking about it.
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That’s something to be aware of. Was he always buying lavish things or did he start that recently?
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Ever since we’ve been dating he’s been buying expensive things. He doesn’t give me much information about his job, just telling me that he works in an office and gets paid very well.