confront the situation , it's pointless wondering all these things , you will drive yourself insane!
I'd be more concerned with the phone that you said was recording and if it was in fact recording or live for people to see while he was busy .
Beside that , you have to bring up the sexuality thing , yes there is men who only use toys for pleasure but some guys are bi and will say that it's simply pleasure because they scared to admit sexuality to their partner and ultimately thenselves, when in fact, actually bi or gay . But deffinately needs to be discussed.
Lots of women see warning signs(dildo in ass) , limp wrist or what ever ... And in the end , they the ones being hurt or betrayed because they were scared to confront the situation but at the same time incase he should be gay or bi(which I'm not saying he is) , don't blow your top , be calm , it's not something that can help and often can be something he never realised when he was younger or too afraid to act on . Rather try to be supportive .
Take a breather think about it, what you would be willing to do or not do (strap on maybe) , shock can be a bitch so be calm when you discuss it . Also ask about sexual partners , if he has been with guys , but don't be judgemental which can be hard when you feeling betrayed or lied too. I have dealt with about 12 cases within one year ... married men who is in fact gay or bisexual , there were exception who identified as straight but enjoys anal sex and had been with men but still straight , with those cases , like I mentioned to you , I suggested to the women to try and get more involved and see what they are comfortable with, if you are willing to do more sexual exploring, if you willing and want to make it work .
Ultimately , you need to know what's what , in this situation there is nothing wrong with thinking about what is best for you and if what you have is real and true , you deserve too know but also be gentle .
My boyfriend uses my dildos? He said he was straight?
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confront the situation , it's pointless wondering all these things , you will drive yourself insane!
I'd be more concerned with the phone that you said was recording and if it was in fact recording or live for people to see while he was busy .
Beside that , you have to bring up the sexuality thing , yes there is men who only use toys for pleasure but some guys are bi and will say that it's simply pleasure because they scared to admit sexuality to their partner and ultimately thenselves, when in fact, actually bi or gay . But deffinately needs to be discussed.
Lots of women see warning signs(dildo in ass) , limp wrist or what ever ... And in the end , they the ones being hurt or betrayed because they were scared to confront the situation but at the same time incase he should be gay or bi(which I'm not saying he is) , don't blow your top , be calm , it's not something that can help and often can be something he never realised when he was younger or too afraid to act on . Rather try to be supportive .
Take a breather think about it, what you would be willing to do or not do (strap on maybe) , shock can be a bitch so be calm when you discuss it . Also ask about sexual partners , if he has been with guys , but don't be judgemental which can be hard when you feeling betrayed or lied too. I have dealt with about 12 cases within one year ... married men who is in fact gay or bisexual , there were exception who identified as straight but enjoys anal sex and had been with men but still straight , with those cases , like I mentioned to you , I suggested to the women to try and get more involved and see what they are comfortable with, if you are willing to do more sexual exploring, if you willing and want to make it work .
Ultimately , you need to know what's what , in this situation there is nothing wrong with thinking about what is best for you and if what you have is real and true , you deserve too know but also be gentle .