Ok. This is my opinion, and having been in one abusive relationship that ended with police reports and medical attention, I believe I havce an idea about abusiveness. If this guy is a Christian, he wouldn't use that language. Period. If he loved you, he wouldn't use that language or gone crazy when you said you had trust issues now. If he has been a nice, caring, supportive boyfriend, he was probably hiding a side of him, though 11 months is a long time for that. Whether he is abusive or just overreactin, he could be potentially dangerous. Look at it this way...if you saying that his breaking your trust makes you doubt that you can trust him makes him go off on you like that and break up with you (which seems like a massive overreaction), think what might happen if he gets upset about something else - something bigger. You can no longer anticipate his reaction to anything, since this one was so completely different, so don't put yourself at risk. He is so not worth it. You are worth more than that. Be the good Christian girl you seem to be and forgive, but don't let him back in. Potential danger is there.
My boyfriend used slightly abusive language?
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Ok. This is my opinion, and having been in one abusive relationship that ended with police reports and medical attention, I believe I havce an idea about abusiveness. If this guy is a Christian, he wouldn't use that language. Period. If he loved you, he wouldn't use that language or gone crazy when you said you had trust issues now. If he has been a nice, caring, supportive boyfriend, he was probably hiding a side of him, though 11 months is a long time for that. Whether he is abusive or just overreactin, he could be potentially dangerous. Look at it this way...if you saying that his breaking your trust makes you doubt that you can trust him makes him go off on you like that and break up with you (which seems like a massive overreaction), think what might happen if he gets upset about something else - something bigger. You can no longer anticipate his reaction to anything, since this one was so completely different, so don't put yourself at risk. He is so not worth it. You are worth more than that. Be the good Christian girl you seem to be and forgive, but don't let him back in. Potential danger is there.