In my opinion he already had the conversation you two had in his mind before you two actually had it.... and your remark was probably the "worst case scenario" and he freaked. He probably worked himself up to being honest and had to get stuff off his chest to feel better....and THEN goes and gets defensive! I wouldn't say he's abusive in any way right now. Make him work to earn your trust again and do yourself a favor and know, whatever this personal and juicy secret was, happened in the past..he was embarrassed and felt guilt over the "issue". But, mainly it was in the past and keep that in mind. Remind him he's in the doghouse (if he is) but you two need to work on trusting each other again.
the doghouse is a term used when one person in the relationship has done or said something, ultimately fucking themselves, and has to put in the time and effort to make you trust them again.
My boyfriend used slightly abusive language?
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In my opinion he already had the conversation you two had in his mind before you two actually had it.... and your remark was probably the "worst case scenario" and he freaked. He probably worked himself up to being honest and had to get stuff off his chest to feel better....and THEN goes and gets defensive! I wouldn't say he's abusive in any way right now. Make him work to earn your trust again and do yourself a favor and know, whatever this personal and juicy secret was, happened in the past..he was embarrassed and felt guilt over the "issue". But, mainly it was in the past and keep that in mind. Remind him he's in the doghouse (if he is) but you two need to work on trusting each other again.
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What's the doghouse?
Thanks your comment was extremely helpful
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the doghouse is a term used when one person in the relationship has done or said something, ultimately fucking themselves, and has to put in the time and effort to make you trust them again.