I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that he's abusive, but of course I don't know him any more than what you wrote. But here's what I think about the language ... maybe he doesn't feel comfortable expressing anger or strong emotions. Maybe everyone has always expected him to be "good" and he's always had to be cautious about his anger, and he keeps it inside most of the time. Then sometimes when he's just filled with too much emotion, he can't help but explode a bit. I'm describing from personal experience within my family.
My boyfriend used slightly abusive language?
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I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that he's abusive, but of course I don't know him any more than what you wrote. But here's what I think about the language ... maybe he doesn't feel comfortable expressing anger or strong emotions. Maybe everyone has always expected him to be "good" and he's always had to be cautious about his anger, and he keeps it inside most of the time. Then sometimes when he's just filled with too much emotion, he can't help but explode a bit. I'm describing from personal experience within my family.