My boyfriend shared me with his friend when i was drunk

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  • Honey, please ignore these dumb ass people smdh ive never been more shocked by comments on this site

    It isn't a blurred line, the idea that "the best sex happens when the girl has little say" is only valid if the girl WANTS to have little say. And to the people telling you that you should let your boyfriend and his friends or whoever the hell he wants to fuck you, I really hope you never have any traumatic sexual experiences or are forced into anything because I promise you if you do youre going to feel like the biggest cunts going, get a grip

    Also if you wrote something like that or you're reading this and you've said something like that to someone before, please imagine that your mother or sister or daughter was telling you this story and reevaluate. And remember, the fact you dont respect a woman until you think of her as someones daughter or sister or wife or mother is a joke. Again, get a grip

    The facts are you were drinking with your boyfriend that you trust and you trusted him to take you home safely and he then let his friend force himself on you. Your boyfriend disrespected you.

    Now, whether or not what happened was rape depends on how it went down, I wasnt there I don't know. And obviously keep in mind that once you say something like that you can't take it back, but if they got you drunk and ignored you resisting it sorta sounds like that is what it was.

    Take some time to really think it over and remember everything that happened! If you realize that what happened wasnt right but you're uncomfortable with talking to authorities or telling the whole world about it then you still need to end it with your boyfriend. He allowed it to happen, knowing you were drunk and you couldn't consent to it!

    I'm sorry this happened to you amd I hope you get things sorted and you find peace! My thoughts are with you, stay safe and look after yourself!

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    • I wouldn't mind my mother being roughed up like that because my mother WAS often roughed up by my father and she's been with him for 28 years, still happier than ever. He often disciplined her when she messed up, called that "domestic discipline", mostly spanking but also other things.

      All women get off on being dominated by their men. There's nothing less sexy than asking for consent like a pussy and let her decide. The most miserable women I see are those who have a meek niceguy-type for a bf/husband, and they end up either cheating on him with some bad boy or divorce-raping him in court out of atrocious boredom.

      Your cliched "I hope you find peace sweetheart" pity lines are directed to a girl who's been discussing her next gangbang with me for the last 24 hours, so she's obviously enjoying it, just check our above conversation. The other woman commenter here says she regrets dumping her ex for banging her with his buddy. The only traumatized person in this room is you.

      Get off the PC train, it's fake. That's just bullshit you say for polite society consumption because that's what polite society wants to hear, but we all it's all bullshit and pretend we don't. In the real world women are aroused by being made to, not being asked.

      EDIT: The girl will always have a say, in the sense that she may leave the relationship and go for a more egalitarian-minded guy or call the cops. No matter how much of a badass the guy is, he can't stand up to an entire police corps and justice system if she ever decides to rat him out. And he knows that.

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      • Yes, like 99% of girls enjoy to be fucked but if you also check her earlier comments she said she tried to stop him amd he didn't stop. She wasnt on here to start a chat with guys about all the different ways she wants to be fucked, she was uncomfortable with something that happened and wanted to have that feeling validated and all she got was a load of guys saying "let your man do what he wants to you" or "I hope you let yourself become the woman your man wants" which is bullshit. She said she felt like she was raped, so I approached the situation as though that was the case because moynody else had.

        There is a difference between dominance that is desired by both/all people involved and just being forced. I dont care right now about all the women who love dominance, I already know about it bevause I'm a sub. But she didn't have that, she had a guy force her when she was drunk. I'm not saying anymore about that because having to explain this to an adult is ridiculous.

        And I'm not some sort or feminazi or whatever the fuck people call them, I don't go crazy about that shit but all the comments on here were a joke. Every time she said I tried to resist etc nobody had her corner, amd I know what its like to have that to I thought fuck it girl power and backed her up. No I won't apologize for that, no its not fake to be PC (even tho I'm not really so it makes no difference to me), and no thats not a in the real world thing. There are some women that like that (like me) and some that dont.

        Gonna say it again so you maybe fucking understand - the fact she is discussing a gang bang with you doesn't mean she still isnt upset about being forced, or that she isn't worried about seeing him, or maybe untrusting of her boyfriend now, or maybe all of the above.

        And to your edit- maybe so in some cases, but we've seen a lot of rapoata walk free bc of minor details. There was a guy recently that got out of a rape charge because the judge agreed she looked over 16, like it's okay to rape a woman just not a girl (even though she was herself 14 if I remember correctly). so not necessarily.

        Please dont reply again because with have no interested I'm hearing anything else from you tbh

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        • "99% of girls enjoy to be fucked"

          Not just fucked, but being made to fuck.

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          "if you also check her earlier comments she said she tried to stop him amd he didn't stop."

          Yes that's exactly what's hot about it!

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          By the way I see you conveniently glossed over the part where I said the man should only be given all decision power when he proves himself capable of handling things, and mentioned the traits he should have.

          The BDSM scene is fake. It's all acting. It doesn't feel real. You say you're a sub (which is just the natural sexual inclination for your average woman) and here you are pretending to be horrified because some girl enjoyed rough sex, as if you didn't know that's the best sex there is.

          The whole BDSM scene became popular when relationships became more egalitarian, when women are being given more choice, when so much emphasis became placed on consent. That's all great, except for one detail: women weren't bred to get off on consent and egalitarianism. Everything they find sexy in a man is a suggestion that he might overpower them or make them lose control. So they make up for it by recreating and acting the whole thing out in artificial scenes and toys, so that they can finally feel that they're being used against their will and having no control, which is what they truly crave.

          I've seen so many women like you. Bitching about male dominance, inconsiderateness, and authority in the day, and then masturbating to those very thoughts of male dominance, inconsiderateness, and authority at night. Just check the erotic novels women get off on -- very few of them have "consent"; it's all blackmail, coercion, abductions, forced imprisonment, and not being left a choice. Can't you see the disconnect?!

          That's right keep it up ladies, with the whole "yes means yes" campaigns and the 'male gaze' nonsense, keep it up until you paralyze men altogether from making a move on you because let's be honest, as enjoyable as it is, no roll in the hay is worth 2 years in the big house. Keep bitching about every single thing that makes you wet, pretend you hate it. Your career, consent-demanding ass will end up miserable.

          It may be high time you made peace with your nature, ladies! Embrace it and you'll finally be free.

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