I mean let him decide who you can and can't fuck (be it him only or the whole football team). But yes, before you give up all decison-making to him, you first have to make sure he's able to protect you. And "protecting you" involves more than strong physique and ability/willingness to fist-fight because 99% of the cases it won't get to that. It's more about how capable he is in general. Meaning:
- Does he have a car in which he can take you whenever and wherever he wanted, and get you away from places in cases of emergency?
- Does he make good money?
- Does he carry a gun? Is he a good shot?
- Is he connected? Does he know people who might help him out in certain circusmtances, get him in or out of places?
- Is he socially smart? Does he know how to get people on his side if it hits the fan?
- Can he plan ahead, do his homework, and manage logistics? This one is probably the most important. Meaning, if he's going to get guys for you, is he the type to vet them, make sure they don't have STDs for example? If he takes you somewhere, does he do research about that place, who hangs in it, how much it costs, how to get to it, what you can do in it once there, etc? Is he one to have plan-Bs? You get picture.
All of the above is what "protection" means. There are also other things you should assess:
- Can he lay down rules, and more importantly, enforce them? (through punishments, incentives, and so on)
- Can he make decisions? Does he rapidly cave in when you say no or are hesitant or does he make you do it anyway?
- Can he handle logistics and preparation without involving and boring you with the details?
- Is he predictable or does he make you do unexpected things, get you to unexpected places, like preparing a seemingly random gangbang meetup in the park at 9pm, or lift your skirt in public out of the blue?
In short, can he take care of shit without being a bore?
Now I don't want you to give the answer to each of those to me. But if you're hand over all decision power to you man, you need to assess those traits in him first. The highest he scores in them the more you can submit to them and hand him authority in the relationship. If he scores high, give almost all decision power; if he score average in them, give him some while drawing lines in the sand (eg: he decides who you fuck but you always add some conditions too (like no mutual friends, etc.))
Right now I make all decisions for my girlfriend: what she wears (I pick her clothes), most of what she can eat, what she can watch, read, when she can go out, with whom, I take her out every once in a while whenever I want wherever I want, I give her allowance money every week, I punish her when she misbehaves, disobeys, or doesn't do her tasks, and I fuck her whenever and however I want, I just grab her and have my way with her and I could pimp her out and have her fucked by whoever I want. She depends on me for a lot of stuff. I take care of business while she just worries about superficial stuff, take care of my house, my cock, and look bangable to me. I like it. She likes it. Everyone's happy.
OMG, I was thinking of maybe, just maybe having a threesome again but thsts IF I trust him to look after me and IF I have a say in who we meet (and NOT his friend or any of his friends for that matter).+
I still haven't decided. I am NOT into getting fucked by a bunch of guys in a random field if that's what you men?
I cant put myself in his hands completely. What if he's not up to protecting me. Are you talking about parking sex because if you are I've heard that a bunch of guys turn up and just touch, I suppose that would be sort of okay if he knew where best to go?
What have you told your girlfriend to do?
Well that's the thing, he has to be able to do the groundwork, to know what he's doing, and to deal with the unexpected.
Take the parking thing as an example. Say I wanted to make a thousand bucks real quick in the next couple of days. What do I do? First I check out the parking lots in the area, which ones are dark and discreet enough. I spot one, I go visit the spot real quick, check out where to park, what kind of surveillance it has, where the exits are, and so on. Then I go into Craigslist and put an ad that says: 'BJ for $50. If you're from the XX area and interested, hit me up.' while putting the skankiest photo I have of my girl. A bunch of guys contact me. Send them other slutty pics of my girl and tell four of them to meet me up at 8pm in X parking lot, and tell 4 others to be there at 9. At around 5 I tell my girl we're going for a ride later in the evening, and that I want her to wear: that specific 12-inch skirt of hers, low-cut tight shirt, heeled mules, lipstick, no panties, no bra.. I tell her that there are a bunch of guys I want her to take care of. We go there. At 8 the guys call. I leave her in the car and go check them, see if they're not carrying anything 'lethal', they give me the money, I tell them to grope her like a piece of meat to get themselves heated up, her ass, her tits, that she's a nice of ass and sucks good and clean, they come to the car, I open the passenger door tell her to get out, a couple guys start grabbing her tits, another comes behind her and rubs his cock on her butt until he gets hard and goes "damn bitch feels good", another fingers her upskirt while rubbing his dick against her leg and kissing her neck, one of them whips out his dick, I tell her to jerk him off, the others whip out their dicks too, I tell her to start sucking one of them, she's a little hesitant so I grab and push her head down to his dick until she starts sucking, the other guys grope her butt and tits while she's blowing him and while they're jerking it, the first one comes in her mouth, then she blows the second who comes on her tits, the third one cums on her face, and the fourth in her mouth again. When they all relieve themselves on her they leave. She cleans herself up, and we wait for the next four that come at 9. Same thing. I stand there watching the whole thing while feeling up my gun. At the end of that two hours I'll have made $400 bucks. At the end of each night I take her somewhere nice, get some ice cream, then play something with her, then we go back to the car, before she gets in I grab her, bend her on the hood, lift up her skirt, and pound her furiously until I come inside her cause watching her being used and sucking dicks the whole night made me horny. Rince and repeat the next day, then the next. In three days I'll have made my $1200. I take her out and get her a little something to celebrate.
That's pretty much what I mean by preparing, doing the groundwork, handling things, all that. Taking care of business in short, making sure she's protected and things run smoothly. From inspecting the lot to Craigslist to dealing with the guys. But she'll be kept out of all that, she doesn't know what happens behind the scene, and she won't ask because that's just how it works. She just worries about putting her clothes, sucking dick, and following my lead.
Now is your guy the kind of guy that can prepare like that, handle logistics, plan ahead, and deals with stuff? I don't know. What you should do is test him first. Give him more authority. And see how he handles things. If he can do it and can control you and handle you well, then become his bitch.
It's best if you find a capable man to take care of that stuff for you, i.e. a pimp who'll also be your boyfriend. You'll just worry about looking sexy and get used to be made to suck and receive men's cocks.
Look, I absolutely loved the experience of having two men and if I'm absolutely honest with myself, I loved the feeling of being held down and taken against my will.
I put on an earlier question on this site which was about my boyfriend wanting to blindfold me and tie me to the bed and it was about trusting him to do that without him letting other men fuck me without me knowing.
Well actually, Id really be up for that now and maybe I could ask him to bring two or three other guys to a motel room to take turns fucking me without me knowing who it is, with me blindfolded and cuffed to the bed and unable to resist.
OMG that would be an amazing turn on...and maybe even a woman I know ould take advantage of me?
My boyfriend shared me with his friend when i was drunk
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I mean let him decide who you can and can't fuck (be it him only or the whole football team). But yes, before you give up all decison-making to him, you first have to make sure he's able to protect you. And "protecting you" involves more than strong physique and ability/willingness to fist-fight because 99% of the cases it won't get to that. It's more about how capable he is in general. Meaning:
- Does he have a car in which he can take you whenever and wherever he wanted, and get you away from places in cases of emergency?
- Does he make good money?
- Does he carry a gun? Is he a good shot?
- Is he connected? Does he know people who might help him out in certain circusmtances, get him in or out of places?
- Is he socially smart? Does he know how to get people on his side if it hits the fan?
- Can he plan ahead, do his homework, and manage logistics? This one is probably the most important. Meaning, if he's going to get guys for you, is he the type to vet them, make sure they don't have STDs for example? If he takes you somewhere, does he do research about that place, who hangs in it, how much it costs, how to get to it, what you can do in it once there, etc? Is he one to have plan-Bs? You get picture.
All of the above is what "protection" means. There are also other things you should assess:
- Can he lay down rules, and more importantly, enforce them? (through punishments, incentives, and so on)
- Can he make decisions? Does he rapidly cave in when you say no or are hesitant or does he make you do it anyway?
- Can he handle logistics and preparation without involving and boring you with the details?
- Is he predictable or does he make you do unexpected things, get you to unexpected places, like preparing a seemingly random gangbang meetup in the park at 9pm, or lift your skirt in public out of the blue?
In short, can he take care of shit without being a bore?
Now I don't want you to give the answer to each of those to me. But if you're hand over all decision power to you man, you need to assess those traits in him first. The highest he scores in them the more you can submit to them and hand him authority in the relationship. If he scores high, give almost all decision power; if he score average in them, give him some while drawing lines in the sand (eg: he decides who you fuck but you always add some conditions too (like no mutual friends, etc.))
Right now I make all decisions for my girlfriend: what she wears (I pick her clothes), most of what she can eat, what she can watch, read, when she can go out, with whom, I take her out every once in a while whenever I want wherever I want, I give her allowance money every week, I punish her when she misbehaves, disobeys, or doesn't do her tasks, and I fuck her whenever and however I want, I just grab her and have my way with her and I could pimp her out and have her fucked by whoever I want. She depends on me for a lot of stuff. I take care of business while she just worries about superficial stuff, take care of my house, my cock, and look bangable to me. I like it. She likes it. Everyone's happy.
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OMG, I was thinking of maybe, just maybe having a threesome again but thsts IF I trust him to look after me and IF I have a say in who we meet (and NOT his friend or any of his friends for that matter).+
I still haven't decided. I am NOT into getting fucked by a bunch of guys in a random field if that's what you men?
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No that was just an example of his ability to surprise you. Reread the whole comment, slowly this time.
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I cant put myself in his hands completely. What if he's not up to protecting me. Are you talking about parking sex because if you are I've heard that a bunch of guys turn up and just touch, I suppose that would be sort of okay if he knew where best to go?
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Well that's the thing, he has to be able to do the groundwork, to know what he's doing, and to deal with the unexpected.
Take the parking thing as an example. Say I wanted to make a thousand bucks real quick in the next couple of days. What do I do? First I check out the parking lots in the area, which ones are dark and discreet enough. I spot one, I go visit the spot real quick, check out where to park, what kind of surveillance it has, where the exits are, and so on. Then I go into Craigslist and put an ad that says: 'BJ for $50. If you're from the XX area and interested, hit me up.' while putting the skankiest photo I have of my girl. A bunch of guys contact me. Send them other slutty pics of my girl and tell four of them to meet me up at 8pm in X parking lot, and tell 4 others to be there at 9. At around 5 I tell my girl we're going for a ride later in the evening, and that I want her to wear: that specific 12-inch skirt of hers, low-cut tight shirt, heeled mules, lipstick, no panties, no bra.. I tell her that there are a bunch of guys I want her to take care of. We go there. At 8 the guys call. I leave her in the car and go check them, see if they're not carrying anything 'lethal', they give me the money, I tell them to grope her like a piece of meat to get themselves heated up, her ass, her tits, that she's a nice of ass and sucks good and clean, they come to the car, I open the passenger door tell her to get out, a couple guys start grabbing her tits, another comes behind her and rubs his cock on her butt until he gets hard and goes "damn bitch feels good", another fingers her upskirt while rubbing his dick against her leg and kissing her neck, one of them whips out his dick, I tell her to jerk him off, the others whip out their dicks too, I tell her to start sucking one of them, she's a little hesitant so I grab and push her head down to his dick until she starts sucking, the other guys grope her butt and tits while she's blowing him and while they're jerking it, the first one comes in her mouth, then she blows the second who comes on her tits, the third one cums on her face, and the fourth in her mouth again. When they all relieve themselves on her they leave. She cleans herself up, and we wait for the next four that come at 9. Same thing. I stand there watching the whole thing while feeling up my gun. At the end of that two hours I'll have made $400 bucks. At the end of each night I take her somewhere nice, get some ice cream, then play something with her, then we go back to the car, before she gets in I grab her, bend her on the hood, lift up her skirt, and pound her furiously until I come inside her cause watching her being used and sucking dicks the whole night made me horny. Rince and repeat the next day, then the next. In three days I'll have made my $1200. I take her out and get her a little something to celebrate.
That's pretty much what I mean by preparing, doing the groundwork, handling things, all that. Taking care of business in short, making sure she's protected and things run smoothly. From inspecting the lot to Craigslist to dealing with the guys. But she'll be kept out of all that, she doesn't know what happens behind the scene, and she won't ask because that's just how it works. She just worries about putting her clothes, sucking dick, and following my lead.
Now is your guy the kind of guy that can prepare like that, handle logistics, plan ahead, and deals with stuff? I don't know. What you should do is test him first. Give him more authority. And see how he handles things. If he can do it and can control you and handle you well, then become his bitch.
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Omg I want to do this, it sounds amazing. Should I just put an ad out there and do it myself.
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It's best if you find a capable man to take care of that stuff for you, i.e. a pimp who'll also be your boyfriend. You'll just worry about looking sexy and get used to be made to suck and receive men's cocks.
What do you mean, the parking sex or the threesome with two men?
Look, I absolutely loved the experience of having two men and if I'm absolutely honest with myself, I loved the feeling of being held down and taken against my will.
I put on an earlier question on this site which was about my boyfriend wanting to blindfold me and tie me to the bed and it was about trusting him to do that without him letting other men fuck me without me knowing.
Well actually, Id really be up for that now and maybe I could ask him to bring two or three other guys to a motel room to take turns fucking me without me knowing who it is, with me blindfolded and cuffed to the bed and unable to resist.
OMG that would be an amazing turn on...and maybe even a woman I know ould take advantage of me?
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Sounds hot.