It's better that way. I've had these thoughts before, and if I were to ever sandwich my girl between me and another man it'd be a guy from outside our circles.
Also don't get too hung up on the 'used/forced' thing. The hottest sex usually occurs when the girl has had little say in the matter, which is why I say it's better to delegate those decisions to your guy (if you see he's decisive, can plan ahead, and take charge, that is).
I mean let him decide who you can and can't fuck (be it him only or the whole football team). But yes, before you give up all decison-making to him, you first have to make sure he's able to protect you. And "protecting you" involves more than strong physique and ability/willingness to fist-fight because 99% of the cases it won't get to that. It's more about how capable he is in general. Meaning:
- Does he have a car in which he can take you whenever and wherever he wanted, and get you away from places in cases of emergency?
- Does he make good money?
- Does he carry a gun? Is he a good shot?
- Is he connected? Does he know people who might help him out in certain circusmtances, get him in or out of places?
- Is he socially smart? Does he know how to get people on his side if it hits the fan?
- Can he plan ahead, do his homework, and manage logistics? This one is probably the most important. Meaning, if he's going to get guys for you, is he the type to vet them, make sure they don't have STDs for example? If he takes you somewhere, does he do research about that place, who hangs in it, how much it costs, how to get to it, what you can do in it once there, etc? Is he one to have plan-Bs? You get picture.
All of the above is what "protection" means. There are also other things you should assess:
- Can he lay down rules, and more importantly, enforce them? (through punishments, incentives, and so on)
- Can he make decisions? Does he rapidly cave in when you say no or are hesitant or does he make you do it anyway?
- Can he handle logistics and preparation without involving and boring you with the details?
- Is he predictable or does he make you do unexpected things, get you to unexpected places, like preparing a seemingly random gangbang meetup in the park at 9pm, or lift your skirt in public out of the blue?
In short, can he take care of shit without being a bore?
Now I don't want you to give the answer to each of those to me. But if you're hand over all decision power to you man, you need to assess those traits in him first. The highest he scores in them the more you can submit to them and hand him authority in the relationship. If he scores high, give almost all decision power; if he score average in them, give him some while drawing lines in the sand (eg: he decides who you fuck but you always add some conditions too (like no mutual friends, etc.))
Right now I make all decisions for my girlfriend: what she wears (I pick her clothes), most of what she can eat, what she can watch, read, when she can go out, with whom, I take her out every once in a while whenever I want wherever I want, I give her allowance money every week, I punish her when she misbehaves, disobeys, or doesn't do her tasks, and I fuck her whenever and however I want, I just grab her and have my way with her and I could pimp her out and have her fucked by whoever I want. She depends on me for a lot of stuff. I take care of business while she just worries about superficial stuff, take care of my house, my cock, and look bangable to me. I like it. She likes it. Everyone's happy.
OMG, I was thinking of maybe, just maybe having a threesome again but thsts IF I trust him to look after me and IF I have a say in who we meet (and NOT his friend or any of his friends for that matter).+
I still haven't decided. I am NOT into getting fucked by a bunch of guys in a random field if that's what you men?
I cant put myself in his hands completely. What if he's not up to protecting me. Are you talking about parking sex because if you are I've heard that a bunch of guys turn up and just touch, I suppose that would be sort of okay if he knew where best to go?
What have you told your girlfriend to do?
My boyfriend shared me with his friend when i was drunk
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It's better that way. I've had these thoughts before, and if I were to ever sandwich my girl between me and another man it'd be a guy from outside our circles.
Also don't get too hung up on the 'used/forced' thing. The hottest sex usually occurs when the girl has had little say in the matter, which is why I say it's better to delegate those decisions to your guy (if you see he's decisive, can plan ahead, and take charge, that is).
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You mean let him pick the guy. I suppose so. i really want to stay with him so I would be willing to do what he wanted,as long as he protected me.
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I mean let him decide who you can and can't fuck (be it him only or the whole football team). But yes, before you give up all decison-making to him, you first have to make sure he's able to protect you. And "protecting you" involves more than strong physique and ability/willingness to fist-fight because 99% of the cases it won't get to that. It's more about how capable he is in general. Meaning:
- Does he have a car in which he can take you whenever and wherever he wanted, and get you away from places in cases of emergency?
- Does he make good money?
- Does he carry a gun? Is he a good shot?
- Is he connected? Does he know people who might help him out in certain circusmtances, get him in or out of places?
- Is he socially smart? Does he know how to get people on his side if it hits the fan?
- Can he plan ahead, do his homework, and manage logistics? This one is probably the most important. Meaning, if he's going to get guys for you, is he the type to vet them, make sure they don't have STDs for example? If he takes you somewhere, does he do research about that place, who hangs in it, how much it costs, how to get to it, what you can do in it once there, etc? Is he one to have plan-Bs? You get picture.
All of the above is what "protection" means. There are also other things you should assess:
- Can he lay down rules, and more importantly, enforce them? (through punishments, incentives, and so on)
- Can he make decisions? Does he rapidly cave in when you say no or are hesitant or does he make you do it anyway?
- Can he handle logistics and preparation without involving and boring you with the details?
- Is he predictable or does he make you do unexpected things, get you to unexpected places, like preparing a seemingly random gangbang meetup in the park at 9pm, or lift your skirt in public out of the blue?
In short, can he take care of shit without being a bore?
Now I don't want you to give the answer to each of those to me. But if you're hand over all decision power to you man, you need to assess those traits in him first. The highest he scores in them the more you can submit to them and hand him authority in the relationship. If he scores high, give almost all decision power; if he score average in them, give him some while drawing lines in the sand (eg: he decides who you fuck but you always add some conditions too (like no mutual friends, etc.))
Right now I make all decisions for my girlfriend: what she wears (I pick her clothes), most of what she can eat, what she can watch, read, when she can go out, with whom, I take her out every once in a while whenever I want wherever I want, I give her allowance money every week, I punish her when she misbehaves, disobeys, or doesn't do her tasks, and I fuck her whenever and however I want, I just grab her and have my way with her and I could pimp her out and have her fucked by whoever I want. She depends on me for a lot of stuff. I take care of business while she just worries about superficial stuff, take care of my house, my cock, and look bangable to me. I like it. She likes it. Everyone's happy.
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OMG, I was thinking of maybe, just maybe having a threesome again but thsts IF I trust him to look after me and IF I have a say in who we meet (and NOT his friend or any of his friends for that matter).+
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No that was just an example of his ability to surprise you. Reread the whole comment, slowly this time.
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I cant put myself in his hands completely. What if he's not up to protecting me. Are you talking about parking sex because if you are I've heard that a bunch of guys turn up and just touch, I suppose that would be sort of okay if he knew where best to go?
What have you told your girlfriend to do?
***that only counts if the girl enjoys having little say in the matter