First of all: Don't marry him because your family wants you to. If you marry him it should be because you and your boyfriend want that, and you can take all the time you need.
I'm a bit similar to your boyfriend. My girl and I are both at university and neither of us knows what we'll do after. What if she wants to move to another country or something? It's really hard to commit to someone forever when you have no idea where you're going yet.
If he sais he can't promise anything he's being honest, even if it's not very romantic. And although it's not ideal; It's still better than someone who will promise you the world and not mean it.
Two years is not that long. A friend of mine is getting married at 20 years old, which is really young if you ask me, but even she was with her boyfriend for 5 years. Why does your family want you to get married so much? If 91 is your year of birth, you're 25, so it's not like your clock is running out or anything. My oncle married his wive when they both were 40, and now they got two cute little daughters.
The one thing you are too old for now is letting your parents tell you what to do. You're a grown woman and you make your own life choices.
MY boyfriend says he loves me but he cant promise anything
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First of all: Don't marry him because your family wants you to. If you marry him it should be because you and your boyfriend want that, and you can take all the time you need.
I'm a bit similar to your boyfriend. My girl and I are both at university and neither of us knows what we'll do after. What if she wants to move to another country or something? It's really hard to commit to someone forever when you have no idea where you're going yet.
If he sais he can't promise anything he's being honest, even if it's not very romantic. And although it's not ideal; It's still better than someone who will promise you the world and not mean it.
How long have you guys known each other?
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If he don't want you well just don't fuck with him.
Almost 2 years i love him he says that too but we both doesn't want a marriage now only my family pressure is the prob
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Two years is not that long. A friend of mine is getting married at 20 years old, which is really young if you ask me, but even she was with her boyfriend for 5 years. Why does your family want you to get married so much? If 91 is your year of birth, you're 25, so it's not like your clock is running out or anything. My oncle married his wive when they both were 40, and now they got two cute little daughters.
The one thing you are too old for now is letting your parents tell you what to do. You're a grown woman and you make your own life choices.