My boyfriend said some stuff and now i feel like crap.

What a guy likes in porn usually isn't what he wants in real life, I bet ur guy loves ur body or he wouldn't have gotten with u in the first place. My bf once made a stupid comment about how he like big tits but after I suggested me getting implants he was horrified and made a point afterward to always compliment my rack ^.^ all guys may like to look at big tits but they don't really care cuz they like vagina more lol

Don't be insecure, but if you are, just tell him how you're feeling. And if he doesn't want to hear it, he can go back to watching porn and being single.

Its normal to feel like shit after you have been insulted. I think he owes you an apology.

Of course it's normal, when guys say shit like that and don't acknoweledge you for who you are and what you look like, He seems very shallow. Dump him.

It is true, guys do love big boobies and the whole package. So what, it's just a fantasy.

I suppose it's normal to feel a little insecure about it, but you shouldn't make a big deal out of it. He surely loves you, and probably said nothing because he didn't know how to deal with your girly crap. Guys hate that shit. Know what they love though? Confidence. Rock those itty bitty titties, they're probably cute as hell.

I go through this same emotion A LOT with my boyfriend and what ive come to realize more and more is that if he doesnt realize these comments are mean and hurtful well he probably isnt looking out for your feelings or best intentions and maybe he just isnt the one, trust me im working towards taking this statement into full consideration.

Yes , very normal , guys are very blunt about things without thinking and then say sorry i didn't mean to hurt your feelings:/.

Your a Leo right? Haha girl I thought I was the only one out there that felt that way! I can't stand things like that on tv and it makes me very depressed!! Oh I could just give him a piece of my mind! You should leave him and say "Here now you can go have another girl that looks better than me!" what an asshole!

I'm so happy my boyfriend is not like that :) get rid of him he is not worth it...... My boyfriend does not even watch porn anymore :) .....(:

As a guy, I can probably tell you he's more worried about what/if you like him more than you'd think. He probably just wasn't thinking when he said it and didn't mean to upset you. You should talk it over with him, you can probably guilt trip a good diner out of it lol. It'll be fine, just don't worry about it so much and don't let it get to you.

has he ever heard of guy talk? I had to have this discussion with my boy.. actually more then once.. but certain things, although ok to talk to with his male buds, is not ok for him to say infront of his girl (unless he wnats to be in the dog house) Ohhh... and he's wrong by the way. ALOT of men out there who actually prefer smaller breast. Just give him a kick in the arse, if all else fails, tell him if he would rather bigger boobs then he cant see/touch yours.. im sure that'll have him eating his own words.

Well guys are stupid. But atleast he didnt lie & be fake to you. I mean, if he told you BUT I LOVE SMALL BOOBIES BETTER then he'd be lying.

Urg, need to clear something up. I no longer am fasinated by an asian girl as being with a white girl again for two years brought me back to the white side of dating. But, if I ever dated a non-white girl again, it will be an asian girl.

I think it is perfectly normal to feel low after hearing something like that. It sounds like he was just being brutally honest with you which he probably could have avoided as you didn't want to talk about it but at least he was honest.

As he said though, I don't think it means anything either and you really shouldn't feel bad about it at all, if he didn't find you attractive, he wouldn't be with you right?

P.s. "HE doesn't understand why I feel so bad when perfect women appear on TV, but he's a guy, so yeah I wouldn't expect him to understand."
I hope you don't believe it's not the same for men, at least not all men.

I hope you feel better, I don't think it's anything worth feeling bad over but it does sound pretty normal.