My boyfriend's best friends

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I dislike my boyfriend's best friends. The girl and the boy.

I'll first start off with the girl. This girl has a boyfriend herself. Whenever guys hit on her or whatever she tells my boyfriend, and expects him to confront them or kick their butts? What's her deal? It's none of my boyfriend's business to be a part of that, and why violence? She should just consult her own boyfriend, right?

His other best friend is a complete jealous freak, the male one that is. I don't understand him. He gets jealous when my boyfriend spends time with me. He wants my boyfriend to be single, for they can go to parties, get girls, and get messed up together. He dislikes me because I've actually help motivate my boyfriend to become a better, more mature person. This friend of his has no morals or values. Always just wants to have a good time.

My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship. Been dating for 3 years now, but what do I do about his ANNOYING FRIENDS?

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago | pl

    You could try lightening up a bit.

    Seems that you have such a wonderful relationship because your boyfriend tries hard to make it so.

    Have you considered that, maybe, some of you friends irritate him as his do to you?

    Firstly, I'd stop referring to them as "His friends", and think of them as just people he knows, and who maybe, seeing as he's such a great guy (you admit), rely on him a bit to guide them through stuff.

    Maybe if you stopped thinking of yourself for just a bit, you might see that your great bf is trying to juggle his time between an insecure gf (you), and his friends.

    His time and love aren't exclusively yours. Appreciate that he devotes as much as them as he can to you, and still has time and love for others.

    That's a great guy.

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    • happycamper12
      14 years ago | pl

      honestly i am a very confident woman. i am not insecure what so ever. thank you for your feedback. the people he hang out with, arent good for him. i do not just think about myself. i think about him too, i mean obviously i do. first off the girl wants my boyfriends to be violent and fight other people for her..how is that good for my boyfriend? and the boy my boyfriend is close to, only wants to have sex with other girls and party hard, do drugs, and what not. why would i want my boyfriend to be around certain people like that under those circumstances. i love the fact that he gives me love, but im not thinking of my myself here. im thinking of his best interest. thats why i called them annoying...because they just bring out the negatives. do u not see what i am saying. if they were good, level headed, nice people....then of course i wouldnt mind my boyfriend hanging out with them, and sharing his love and time with them. its just that, if he hangs with him, he puts his life in danger, his health, and his morals.

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  • SamuraiPeeper
    13 years ago | pl

    You sound really controlling, and I hate that that you presume to think you can change him into a "better, more mature," person.

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  • Sunnydayz
    11 years ago | pl

    Kiss him
    Say I need to tell you something
    Tell him
    Ask him what he can do ( if he says no say do you love me?)

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  • kelili
    11 years ago | pl

    I think you have a problem.

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  • Sabaky
    12 years ago | pl

    Ignore them and concenrate on ur bf and ur friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    You are ruining your boyfriend. want to know what happens to my girlfriends when they try to make me more mature? They get dumped. accept him for who he is

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