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My boyfriend would rather me give him a blowjob than have sex with me. I'm a woman by the way, he likes sex but when ever we are on the couch and I give him the look he whips out his cock and tries to stick it in my face, I tell him to fuck me up my pussy then he moans and then we have sex. He eats me out when I ask, but I'm not into receiving oral as much as him.
It's understandable. It takes much less energy and consideration on his part, and when it's done well it can even feel better. Actual intercourse is usually a lot more rewarding to me, but I do love getting head, sometimes more than sex.
However, if he's downright grumpy at the idea of having sex with you or pleasing you, then it sounds like he's not really taking your preferences and needs into account, or at least he's doing so reluctantly. That's not good. Relationships should be mutual. Sex should be mutual.