My boyfriend of a year ghosted me because i'm not pro guns?

You two sound rather incompatible to be completely honest.

He sounds like a fucking loser. No offense, i've dealt with people who have mental health issues and been in a relationship with 1 too and that's not really an excuse to act like a child. Not talking to you for a day because he's upset, fine, but deleting you and just completely ghost when the two of you are IN A RELATIONSHIP? I don't know, that sounds very childish and petty to me. Almost manipulative. You can't expect someone you're dating to always agree with you on literally everything, you're not the same person. He doesn't sound like he's ready to be in a serious relationship at all and needs to work out some of his issues first.

Gun issue aside he ghosted his girlfriend therefore he is mentally a child. The trash has taken itself out.

Even bad relationships hurt when they end, but him leaving you is a blessing in disguise. Give it time and you will see it, I get the impression your life will be much less stressful without having to dance around this boy’s mood swings.

hard to believe it took a year for this to come up

Nah, it's not normal. You sound like you know what you've got yourself into here, and I hope it works for you, but I couldn't deal with this.

You can't even voice political opinions that differ from his without him breaking up from you? That sounds stressful as hell. Do you think there's any chance that you can work on this problem with him, or is this how it's always going to be?

If a woman did this to me I would be out of there tbh, but I think people on this site are too quick to say "dump them" as soon as a problem arises, since different people deal with these situations better than others, but this is a pretty serious problem. Can you realistically work on this problem with him? And if not, can you live with this situation long term? Also, you sound like a very nice woman btw; caring, considerate, understanding and patient.

I don't care if I date someone anti gun as long as they just ignore the fact that I like to buy and shoot guns. I can keep em locked and hidden they can ignore the fact I like em. No reason to break up over it. Your bf sounds like a child

Unfortunately in these times, it’s normal to break up over political beliefs.

That's why I like to lay down my political beliefs as early as possible. No point in a relationship if we are gonna hate each others ideas. If the foundation is crap anything built on top of it will be too.

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Feeling good as hell

I'll tell you this. People are complicated beings and sometimes actions can't be rationalized. He sounds like he has a lot of mental issues and it's your choice if you love him enough to help him cope.

I'm pro guns too so he made the right decision. If everybody carried guns ther would be a lot less crime in this country

What did you say? This is kind of a deal breaker for alot of people which is sad. But alot of anti gun people want to take other people's guns. Which is kind of forcing their view on you because obviously us pro gun ppl dont want to force guns on people who dont like them. It depends how anti gun you are i guess. Are you not willing to live in a house with guns?

For what? I've always been kind to him

good reason to ghost you, dumb opinion

He's right