My boyfriend never compliments me, iin

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My boyfriend and I went to high school together. After hs, he moved states and we continued to stay in touch. I recently moved out with him where he lives and it's just me and him, no family. He used to make me feel so special and always boosted my confidence. Since the move, the compliments and confidence boosters came to a hault.
He's a pretty soft spoken guy with a more sarcastic sense of humor.
Is it possible he still finds me attractive but just doesn't understand girls like to be complimented!?
I feel needy fishing for compliments but damn, he leaves my sensitive ass no choice sometimes.
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    Compliment yourself. Boost you own confidence. Though it's nice to be complimented, you shouldn't be in just a need for it; that creates emotional dependency.

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  • Youngvictoria
    6 years ago

    Most guys don't understand they need to compliment you, especially once the relationship is long established. Tell him you'd love more compliments. In a constructive calm and pleasant way, not as a fire starter. Compliment him to inspire him.

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    • Coocoo43
      6 years ago

      I compliment him every day. He never reciprocates it. I feel like I go out of my way to try to look nice and he just never notices. Either he's clueless or flat out isn't attracted to me at all. Either way it makes me feel like shit.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Talk to him.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    my fucking mother keeps fishing for the I love you over the phone. what the hell is it with you women that you need told ? i mean shit lady , you think he enjoys smelling your farts . of course he still love you or he would have fucking bashed your face in.

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  • S12207
    6 years ago

    Just sounds like the fire went out 😣 try to be spontaneous and keep things interesting

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  • Jason-X
    6 years ago

    Maybe, He Doesnt Know How To
    Tease & Compliment Him
    With His Sense Of Sarcastic Homour Teasing Wil Help
    Like U'l Say, Love Dat Shirt Ur Wearing, Are U Trying To Seduce Any Other Girl? *wink & Laugh*
    He'l Surely Laugh & Take Note Of Ur Cloth, He May Even Be Like: What Of You, Gorgeous & All That, U're Tryin To Seduce Another Guy Right?
    Also, Make Urself Approachable Not As If You're Accusing Him Or Sometin,let Him Know Your Joking
    And Dont Use His Money To Buy That Shirt, He May Be Thinking About How Much You're Draining Out Of Him To Buy It.

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