This may be difficult but I suggest trying to not let it bother you. Guys are pretty visual and I can guarantee that a large majority of guys do this, the act itself having no other meaning than getting off. It has nothing to do with you or any girl and most guys have been doing this LONG before their potential girlfriends come into play. It would come off as controlling and insecure to say for example, "No porn for you or we're done!" as if guys don't see other attractive females everyday but chooses to stay with their girlfriend or the same for girls. Its also very possible that the guy thinks about his girl while watching too, playing out who knows what kinds of fantasies he has. I know I do. >,>
Seriously though, the actors on screen are unobtainable, undesirable, and while some can imagine their fantasies, guys more than likely need visuals too, thats all it is.
My boyfriend looks at porn, should I care?
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This may be difficult but I suggest trying to not let it bother you. Guys are pretty visual and I can guarantee that a large majority of guys do this, the act itself having no other meaning than getting off. It has nothing to do with you or any girl and most guys have been doing this LONG before their potential girlfriends come into play. It would come off as controlling and insecure to say for example, "No porn for you or we're done!" as if guys don't see other attractive females everyday but chooses to stay with their girlfriend or the same for girls. Its also very possible that the guy thinks about his girl while watching too, playing out who knows what kinds of fantasies he has. I know I do. >,>
Seriously though, the actors on screen are unobtainable, undesirable, and while some can imagine their fantasies, guys more than likely need visuals too, thats all it is.