Yea I agree it's weird and unhealthy but I guess the back story on how he got the interest might help, he was never into it by any meansz till this one girl he was dating used her blood as a test to see if someone she is dating is with her cause they care for her or if shes just a fetish to them, she was a trans woman as well, and when she presented the test to him well they started doing blood stuff together and he grew to like it, he knows I won't ever taste his own, blood grosses me out a little bit but I understand the interest he has in it and it's not a hard limit for me, I always thought it would be but when it was actually presented to me turns out I'm not actually terribly agaisnt it so I understand your point but I hope the extra knowledge helped put e everything in perspective
Yeah, I'm sorry, but the past is the past. You're not responsible for whatever bullshit he did, or happened to him in the past. Also I think your idiot boyfriend ought to go get an AIDS test. I hope you are at least using condoms when you my are with this guy, if not then you need to go get an AIDS test too.
Nothing against transgendered women, but for the record, your idiot boyfriend's ex is is a crazy bitch!
Okay, I think what you need to do here, sugar, is clear; you need to start reading and learning about setting boundaries! It's not healthy to let other people manipulate you with their sob stories about the past. Don't ever do anything that risks your health and wellbeing just to make some idiot happy.
Happiness is a choice that comes from within, and is more about a person's relationship with his or her Higher Power than anything else. Happiness does not come from drinking someone else's blood, or letting some other jackass drink your blood. Don't let this loser manipulate you with his stupid bullshit! For all you know he might already have a disease, and be trying to spread it to you, and anyone else who is stupid enough to believe his bullshit!
Um I know I'm not responsible for anything in his past nor is it a sob story. Just the story of how he got the interest. He doesn't have any. We haven't done anything physical yet we are waiting till we live together and junk, but anyways he's the type that refuses to use condoms for some reason anyways I'm ok with that but ain't shit happening till he's had an extensive test done and he knows it. Don't worry I won't let him do any manipulating on me. He can be a real dick at times though. I'm being more defensive and expressive when he's like that though and yea he's not biggest fan by the sounds of it but I'm tired of his dickish behavior, I don't even think he realizes he does it
I think you are trying to act tough, but you're also making up excuses for his shitty behavior. To be completely honest a guy who absolutely refuses to wear a condom is just a selfish piece of shit who doesn't care about anything, or anyone, but his own pmeasure. For all you know he could have already transmitted an STD to you. Not all sexually transmitted diseases have obvious symptoms, and sometimes people who have a disease test negative for whatever reason.
It doesn't matter whether or not he realizes that he acts like an asshole, what matters is that he is an asshole. You shouldn't tolerate his shitty behavior, he's not a keeper.
I'm not trying to act tough, I know I'm not. It's impossible for him to have given me one as we haven't done anything yet, that's a good warning though about the stds can prove negative when there positive. He can be yea and I'm sick of it, if he keeps it up I don't think I'll stay with him, I love him but I can't put up with it it's damn near daily and it hurts you know
my boyfriend likes blood, good suggestions?
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Yea I agree it's weird and unhealthy but I guess the back story on how he got the interest might help, he was never into it by any meansz till this one girl he was dating used her blood as a test to see if someone she is dating is with her cause they care for her or if shes just a fetish to them, she was a trans woman as well, and when she presented the test to him well they started doing blood stuff together and he grew to like it, he knows I won't ever taste his own, blood grosses me out a little bit but I understand the interest he has in it and it's not a hard limit for me, I always thought it would be but when it was actually presented to me turns out I'm not actually terribly agaisnt it so I understand your point but I hope the extra knowledge helped put e everything in perspective
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Yeah, I'm sorry, but the past is the past. You're not responsible for whatever bullshit he did, or happened to him in the past. Also I think your idiot boyfriend ought to go get an AIDS test. I hope you are at least using condoms when you my are with this guy, if not then you need to go get an AIDS test too.
Nothing against transgendered women, but for the record, your idiot boyfriend's ex is is a crazy bitch!
Okay, I think what you need to do here, sugar, is clear; you need to start reading and learning about setting boundaries! It's not healthy to let other people manipulate you with their sob stories about the past. Don't ever do anything that risks your health and wellbeing just to make some idiot happy.
Happiness is a choice that comes from within, and is more about a person's relationship with his or her Higher Power than anything else. Happiness does not come from drinking someone else's blood, or letting some other jackass drink your blood. Don't let this loser manipulate you with his stupid bullshit! For all you know he might already have a disease, and be trying to spread it to you, and anyone else who is stupid enough to believe his bullshit!
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Um I know I'm not responsible for anything in his past nor is it a sob story. Just the story of how he got the interest. He doesn't have any. We haven't done anything physical yet we are waiting till we live together and junk, but anyways he's the type that refuses to use condoms for some reason anyways I'm ok with that but ain't shit happening till he's had an extensive test done and he knows it. Don't worry I won't let him do any manipulating on me. He can be a real dick at times though. I'm being more defensive and expressive when he's like that though and yea he's not biggest fan by the sounds of it but I'm tired of his dickish behavior, I don't even think he realizes he does it
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I think you are trying to act tough, but you're also making up excuses for his shitty behavior. To be completely honest a guy who absolutely refuses to wear a condom is just a selfish piece of shit who doesn't care about anything, or anyone, but his own pmeasure. For all you know he could have already transmitted an STD to you. Not all sexually transmitted diseases have obvious symptoms, and sometimes people who have a disease test negative for whatever reason.
It doesn't matter whether or not he realizes that he acts like an asshole, what matters is that he is an asshole. You shouldn't tolerate his shitty behavior, he's not a keeper.
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I'm not trying to act tough, I know I'm not. It's impossible for him to have given me one as we haven't done anything yet, that's a good warning though about the stds can prove negative when there positive. He can be yea and I'm sick of it, if he keeps it up I don't think I'll stay with him, I love him but I can't put up with it it's damn near daily and it hurts you know
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Right on, you can do better than this dude.☺