My grandpa recently died, I was expected to go to the funeral. I've seen him maybe 4 times my entire life and never liked these to begin with. Surprisingly no one has given me dhit for not wasting 2 days pto to attend a funeral I have no fucks to give about
It sounds like - apart from your late grandfather - you might have a basically reasonable family.
As I said in my earlier, it's often the case that funerals are a huge exercise in hypocrisy. There's often performative grieving by people who are indifferent about the death or even secretly relieved that the bastard in the box has finally fucked off out of their lives. Families can be very weird, manipulative and demanding when it comes to younger members "paying their respects" to an elder member who has died even if there was no mutual respect - or even interest - when the old git was alive.
Yea funerals are weird in its entirety. I can promise you not many are missing the basterd. He'd the type of guy to get a black dog name it nigger then beat it. So not exactly a big loss to most people.
They tried to get me to go with my brother but like no. Funerals are weird. I hope I don't have one when I die. I dont want a bunch of people wasting their time over my meat sack.
My boyfriend just died and I am not going to the funeral
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My grandpa recently died, I was expected to go to the funeral. I've seen him maybe 4 times my entire life and never liked these to begin with. Surprisingly no one has given me dhit for not wasting 2 days pto to attend a funeral I have no fucks to give about
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It sounds like - apart from your late grandfather - you might have a basically reasonable family.
As I said in my earlier, it's often the case that funerals are a huge exercise in hypocrisy. There's often performative grieving by people who are indifferent about the death or even secretly relieved that the bastard in the box has finally fucked off out of their lives. Families can be very weird, manipulative and demanding when it comes to younger members "paying their respects" to an elder member who has died even if there was no mutual respect - or even interest - when the old git was alive.
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Yea funerals are weird in its entirety. I can promise you not many are missing the basterd. He'd the type of guy to get a black dog name it nigger then beat it. So not exactly a big loss to most people.
They tried to get me to go with my brother but like no. Funerals are weird. I hope I don't have one when I die. I dont want a bunch of people wasting their time over my meat sack.