Tough decision that only you can answer. It seems he does have a temper that isn't conducive to good health for you or raising children if it went that route. It's hard to overlook how he lost his eyesight but it's also something he'll have to think about the rest of his life. It's not something you have to decide this minute but I don't think I can fault you if you stick it out for a few months and you just can't do it.
I think I would personally try to be there at the moment and help him adjust to his new life and make sure he can support himself somehow. I don't know how it works...I am guessing he would be on disability? If so, then it's not nearly as bad. I just wouldn't put so much pressure on yourself. It's one thing to lose your eyesight by no fault of your own but cooking Crack and hiding it from you is different.
A breakup is never easy. You'll face blame for sure from him. Maybe his friends and family, as well. But you'll get through it. You weren't married...didn't say "TDDUP". You obviously have grounds for your decisions. It's more so just about how you handle it. I.e. going out and having sex immediately post breakup vs. Taking your time and letting the next relationship fall into place when it's right
My boyfriend is going to be blind
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Tough decision that only you can answer. It seems he does have a temper that isn't conducive to good health for you or raising children if it went that route. It's hard to overlook how he lost his eyesight but it's also something he'll have to think about the rest of his life. It's not something you have to decide this minute but I don't think I can fault you if you stick it out for a few months and you just can't do it.
I think I would personally try to be there at the moment and help him adjust to his new life and make sure he can support himself somehow. I don't know how it works...I am guessing he would be on disability? If so, then it's not nearly as bad. I just wouldn't put so much pressure on yourself. It's one thing to lose your eyesight by no fault of your own but cooking Crack and hiding it from you is different.
A breakup is never easy. You'll face blame for sure from him. Maybe his friends and family, as well. But you'll get through it. You weren't married...didn't say "TDDUP". You obviously have grounds for your decisions. It's more so just about how you handle it. I.e. going out and having sex immediately post breakup vs. Taking your time and letting the next relationship fall into place when it's right