My boyfriend has no sex drive and i do!!!!

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Okay,soo..ive been with my bf for about 4 months now,an we have been best friends since 7th grade(thats a long time).We became sexualy active about 2 months ago,but for some reason,im the one who always wants to do stuff.He is NEVER the one to ask me to do stuff.Im always the one who starts in and frankly,it makes me feel kinds manly..Every time i try to talk to him about it,we get into an argument and i end up crying.He always sais hes going to try to do better(what ever that means),but its always the same..It makes me feel like he dosent find me attractive.shouldnt he be the one always wanting to have sex!? arent girls usualy the ones saying "No,i dont wanna have sex rite now"??!!! Some one help me!!! ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!! i feel ugly and my bf just dusnt understand why!!!

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  • ladyday
    13 years ago

    It's okay!! My boyfriend is the same way. He likes kinky stuff but he doesn't like talking about it and he enjoys being dominated, like he wants ME to instigate it and jump onto him. Sometimes it's really hard to get something going because he's also kind of lazy, haha. Try talking to him to see what he likes. If he really loves you, he should be willing to compromise with you.

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  • Gamerdood
    13 years ago

    Your boyfriend is really weird. Hes probably gay or something if he doesnt want sex with a girl.

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  • yohanne
    13 years ago

    wow if your bf dont love sex just txt me..... 09284842054

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  • cherryade
    13 years ago

    1st off my story aint fake, i know how u feel, when ur putting ur all into a relationship & ur partner makes u feel as if u r not worthy, it's like i know i'm hott but u won't make a move on me (strange) ok looks like i have too or i aint getting any tonite.... goodluck with that relationship either way.

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    Different strokes for different folks. You can only fake it for so long.
    BTW, what's your zip code?

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    • MizzBrEeZy
      15 years ago

      its 92508..why?

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