I think he's extremely codependent. I think that he's just acting this way, because he's probably a afraid he'll lose you, but once he gets comfortable again he'll probably fall back into his old behavior patterns of being a jackass. I highly suspect that with him everything is about being controlled, and controlling other people. I feel like this guy doesn't understand the concepts of respect and equality. Even now, he's essentially trying to manipulate you into staying by behaving himself, but overcompensating. He probably thinks that if you feel like you are in control he'll keep the relationship, but it's not who he really is.
My boyfriend has become a complete pushover. IIN?
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I think he's extremely codependent. I think that he's just acting this way, because he's probably a afraid he'll lose you, but once he gets comfortable again he'll probably fall back into his old behavior patterns of being a jackass. I highly suspect that with him everything is about being controlled, and controlling other people. I feel like this guy doesn't understand the concepts of respect and equality. Even now, he's essentially trying to manipulate you into staying by behaving himself, but overcompensating. He probably thinks that if you feel like you are in control he'll keep the relationship, but it's not who he really is.