I do understand about the easier said than done thing.
However, be aware that it's not unknown for controlling guys (aka psychopaths) to suck women down the rabbit hole, completely destroying their sense of self and all self-respect, until they find it impossible to imagine life without the guy and they're so wrapped up in him that they can't escape.
Are you sure that isn't happening already? What precisely would he need to do to make you leave him? If you can't think of anything that would be so bad you'd do that, then I think you have a problem.
(Rhetorical questions. I don't want to know the answers, but you should.)
I think it’s already to that point. I was 16 when I fell in love with him. I was very naive and didn’t see the signs. Now I’m 18 and feel that it’s too late.
My boyfriend has become a complete pushover. IIN?
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He sounds controlling - and possibly very immature.
I think you'd be wise to find the door yourself.
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I agree. Shits easier said than done though when you love somebody enough. Also, isn’t it ironic that I’m 18 and he’s 28 yet he’s the immature one lol
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I do understand about the easier said than done thing.
However, be aware that it's not unknown for controlling guys (aka psychopaths) to suck women down the rabbit hole, completely destroying their sense of self and all self-respect, until they find it impossible to imagine life without the guy and they're so wrapped up in him that they can't escape.
Are you sure that isn't happening already? What precisely would he need to do to make you leave him? If you can't think of anything that would be so bad you'd do that, then I think you have a problem.
(Rhetorical questions. I don't want to know the answers, but you should.)
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I think it’s already to that point. I was 16 when I fell in love with him. I was very naive and didn’t see the signs. Now I’m 18 and feel that it’s too late.
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So leave him. What kinda lecherous creep of a 26 year old goes after a 16 year old?
He's not worth it!
Um hmm.