It seems like he just loves you and is scared of losing you. I wish my boyfriend was like that. He also has problems about me that shouldn’t matter including my hair, he wants me to be as active as he is, he wants me to eat meat, what i music I listen to, what youtube videos i watch etc. I try to be active but the rest of the shit he gets mad about I just do it anyway and he still complains lol. If I told him to suck it up or I’m leaving him he would be like “there’s the door bitch good riddance”
I do understand about the easier said than done thing.
However, be aware that it's not unknown for controlling guys (aka psychopaths) to suck women down the rabbit hole, completely destroying their sense of self and all self-respect, until they find it impossible to imagine life without the guy and they're so wrapped up in him that they can't escape.
Are you sure that isn't happening already? What precisely would he need to do to make you leave him? If you can't think of anything that would be so bad you'd do that, then I think you have a problem.
(Rhetorical questions. I don't want to know the answers, but you should.)
I think it’s already to that point. I was 16 when I fell in love with him. I was very naive and didn’t see the signs. Now I’m 18 and feel that it’s too late.
My boyfriend has become a complete pushover. IIN?
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It seems like he just loves you and is scared of losing you. I wish my boyfriend was like that. He also has problems about me that shouldn’t matter including my hair, he wants me to be as active as he is, he wants me to eat meat, what i music I listen to, what youtube videos i watch etc. I try to be active but the rest of the shit he gets mad about I just do it anyway and he still complains lol. If I told him to suck it up or I’m leaving him he would be like “there’s the door bitch good riddance”
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He sounds controlling - and possibly very immature.
I think you'd be wise to find the door yourself.
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I agree. Shits easier said than done though when you love somebody enough. Also, isn’t it ironic that I’m 18 and he’s 28 yet he’s the immature one lol
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I do understand about the easier said than done thing.
However, be aware that it's not unknown for controlling guys (aka psychopaths) to suck women down the rabbit hole, completely destroying their sense of self and all self-respect, until they find it impossible to imagine life without the guy and they're so wrapped up in him that they can't escape.
Are you sure that isn't happening already? What precisely would he need to do to make you leave him? If you can't think of anything that would be so bad you'd do that, then I think you have a problem.
(Rhetorical questions. I don't want to know the answers, but you should.)
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I think it’s already to that point. I was 16 when I fell in love with him. I was very naive and didn’t see the signs. Now I’m 18 and feel that it’s too late.
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So leave him. What kinda lecherous creep of a 26 year old goes after a 16 year old?
He's not worth it!
Um hmm.
I think he's overreacting, and trying to manipulate her.
Don't let some idiot tell you what to do. Be your own person, and do it for yourself.