My boyfriend goes on porn sites every chance he gets!!!??

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Oh My god!!! I live with my boyfriend and it's been over a year since we've lived together. I was going through my favorites I had bookmarked online on our computer and decided to check history for the past two weeks and seen all of these porn sites, a few in particular I saw over and over again. It really really makes me sick to my stomach especially seeing that he's been watching girls on live cams and sites like that... I mean WOW!!! I'm sooo fricken stunned I feel like crap right now. And he goes on these sites like every chance he gets and now it makes sense to me why we don't have sex as much as I'd like to. is it normal for guys to do this?

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  • FunGuy
    12 years ago | pl

    Go to one of the porn sites and then let him 'accidentally' walk in on you.

    Then sit him down and sit on his lap and watch it.

    Pretty sure you'll get some of that sex you're wanting.

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    • Dazed&confused
      12 years ago | pl

      Haha that's so funny I was thinking of doing something like that lol. He gets sooo awkward and uncomfortable thought like it's wrong to watch porn with ur gf. Like last night we were gonna order a movie and I suggested something from the porn section and he changed the subject and was all weird about it! Pretty much since new years day the sex has been happening and has been a lot better and less boring but it's only been a few days

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  • randypete
    12 years ago | pl

    watch it with him you might have more better sex with him

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  • latoriam32
    12 years ago | pl

    I used to have a hang up about porn because my ex was "addicted" to it. So when I got re-married, I would freak out when my husband was watching porn until we had a conversation about why he watched it. Porn to some is just another form of entertainment. I actually now watch porn with my husband, and by myself. I often watch lesbian porn. I think you should speak to him about it. He may feel that he has to keep it a "secret" or else he knows you will freak out. If his watching porn is causing you to have less sex then it is a problem. As long as he doesn't expect you to replicate what he is watching, I don't see a problem with it. You have to have an open mind about it. All men watch porn. Its just fantasy. Don't you fantasize?

    Seriously consider watching it with him, it may enhance your sex. If he feels that he doesn't have to hide it and can be open about it, it may actually make your relationship stronger.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    In a nutshell, men like porn and women don't like men liking porn. It's no threat to your relationship nor does it mean he loves you any the less. You can either accept it (which may be difficult for you) or you can ask him never to watch porn again (which may be difficult for him). Or perhaps you could watch it together and see how that goes?

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago | pl

    You say you're not having sex as much. Maybe you stopped having sex as much and he started using porn to fill in the missing space.

    Have you asked him about? And I mean asked, not attacked or confront him. This is easier to handle if you keep a cool head about it. He may simply stop if you ask him respectfully. But be prepared to give him sex more often or you wouldn't be being fair about it.

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    • Dazed&confused
      12 years ago | pl

      Everything you guys are saying makes sense. @ chaosdragoon1, I ALWAYS try to have sex with him and he practically shuts me down all the time!! And before that was a problem and id ask him about why we don't have sex as much and he always made excuses!! I talked to him about the whole porn thing and how it makes me feel, I wouldn't care that he watched porn if OUR sex life was satisfying and amazing but the fact that we been going out for 2 and a half years and only done 2 positions outta everything else we can do and it's not satisfying, makes me feel like he's not sexually attracted to me or something and thas why the whole porn thing bugs me, and I'm not an ugly girl and believe me I have moves! Whenever I'd try to incorporate something different he'd get all weird! And I explained all this to him, we talked over the phone yesterday when he was at work, and when he came home he didn't speak to me at all! Now does anyone have further insight lol?

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