I don't know how old you are, but you do realize that the guy that got you wasted and took advantage of you could get in serious trouble. Even if you said yes, you were mentally impaired and in no state to be consenting. What that man did to you is RAPE and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If I were you I would alert authorities! At least let all of your friends know not to accept drinks from him or they will end up in the same position. Also about your boyfriend, I am so sorry. I went through an abusive relationship so similar to the one you described! I am also very very glad that you got out, because once you get so deep it becomes something that you wanna prove to them that you are not what they think, and you think that you can change them. It wont get better and it could end very dangerously for you! What starts as verbal abuse will quickly turn physical as it did in my situation. Also I don't think that your boyfriend should be so upset about what happened between you and that other guy, for two reasons. 1. You and him were not dating at the time, so you owed him no loyalty. And 2. You were Raped, taken advantage of! There was nothing you could have done to stop it. You were the victim. Don't beat yourself up saying that "I should have known better than to accept his drinks" or "I shouldn't have rode home with him". You were lied to about the contents of the drink and were used! That guy that did that to you is a real scum bag and you have no fault in this dear. You were just handed the short end of a very very crummy stick! God bless you and take care of yourself!
My boyfriend gets so paranoid I can't Function?
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I don't know how old you are, but you do realize that the guy that got you wasted and took advantage of you could get in serious trouble. Even if you said yes, you were mentally impaired and in no state to be consenting. What that man did to you is RAPE and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If I were you I would alert authorities! At least let all of your friends know not to accept drinks from him or they will end up in the same position. Also about your boyfriend, I am so sorry. I went through an abusive relationship so similar to the one you described! I am also very very glad that you got out, because once you get so deep it becomes something that you wanna prove to them that you are not what they think, and you think that you can change them. It wont get better and it could end very dangerously for you! What starts as verbal abuse will quickly turn physical as it did in my situation. Also I don't think that your boyfriend should be so upset about what happened between you and that other guy, for two reasons. 1. You and him were not dating at the time, so you owed him no loyalty. And 2. You were Raped, taken advantage of! There was nothing you could have done to stop it. You were the victim. Don't beat yourself up saying that "I should have known better than to accept his drinks" or "I shouldn't have rode home with him". You were lied to about the contents of the drink and were used! That guy that did that to you is a real scum bag and you have no fault in this dear. You were just handed the short end of a very very crummy stick! God bless you and take care of yourself!