This is normal in an abusive relationship. You got to end it, because it'll only get worse.
Also, his behavior is not your fault. Abusers are testers. They push your buttons and see how far you'll comply to their demands or how much you'll try to fit their ridiculously, unrealistically high expectations. Some even go as far as planning out scenarios to see if you make the "right" choice, so I wouldn't be surprised if your boyfriend knew that guy who lied about what you were drinking and took advantage of you.
You got to end that relationship. If not, this guy will destroy your self-esteem, and make you afraid to even leave the house. Everywhere you go, you'll have to walk with your head down like a scared child. Do you really want that?
Sadly, I let my abusive ex do this shit to me for 8 horrible months; I even had the sense to break up with him 6 months in when his crazy got real bad, but took him back because I didn't know abusers did that beg and grovel crap to manipulate you back into the relationship, even if it was them who broken up with you. So please be careful. When abusers feel they're losing control, they will cry, beg, promise to change, and actually pretend they changed FOR A WEEK or so, then go right back to being crazy as fuck or worse. Good luck.
My boyfriend gets so paranoid I can't Function?
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This is normal in an abusive relationship. You got to end it, because it'll only get worse.
Also, his behavior is not your fault. Abusers are testers. They push your buttons and see how far you'll comply to their demands or how much you'll try to fit their ridiculously, unrealistically high expectations. Some even go as far as planning out scenarios to see if you make the "right" choice, so I wouldn't be surprised if your boyfriend knew that guy who lied about what you were drinking and took advantage of you.
You got to end that relationship. If not, this guy will destroy your self-esteem, and make you afraid to even leave the house. Everywhere you go, you'll have to walk with your head down like a scared child. Do you really want that?
Sadly, I let my abusive ex do this shit to me for 8 horrible months; I even had the sense to break up with him 6 months in when his crazy got real bad, but took him back because I didn't know abusers did that beg and grovel crap to manipulate you back into the relationship, even if it was them who broken up with you. So please be careful. When abusers feel they're losing control, they will cry, beg, promise to change, and actually pretend they changed FOR A WEEK or so, then go right back to being crazy as fuck or worse. Good luck.