My boyfriend gets me to suck him in front of his friend(s). normal?>.<

Hiya people.

I should note that I do not give head to ANYONE other than my boyfriend - not his friends.

We have a casual-sex relationship, where I'd stroke him while he drives or he'd just say "Suck my dick please honey" and I'd do it, because we're both horny a lot and I really enjoy sucking his dick. But in front of his pals it's differentttt!

He lately says in front of a friend: "Hey honey, suck my dick?" and I feel awkward but his friends say something like "Go onnnnn." And so I do it, and they watch, share a laugh and drink beer. But his friend have become like .. guides? They keep saying "Start facefucking her mate, haha". And then he'll thrust into my throat as if I'm not even there. And then he'll kiss me on the head and they'll walk off while I'm on my knees.

So .. I don't know how I feel about this, or if I should keep doing it or what, but I'm starting to feel like the love is dying and I'm becoming a bit of a sex object, there to suck on his cock in front of his friends. It's so casual too. "Deb, suck his dick?".

Is it normal? Should I tell him to stop? Or just be loyal to my man?

He's kinda becoming a jerk..

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41% Normal
Based on 399 votes (162 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • normalaccount

    He's slowly leading you down the "blow us all path"

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Nope things like this should be in private.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    sounds like he's showing off that he has a personal fuck toy.

    the question is - do you want to be treated like this?
    if so then carry on but if not, perhaps you need to rethink what you're getting out of this

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  • quentari

    If you're feeling degraded and used, then it's not normal. Would he be willing to do the same for you?

    Talk to him and let him know that you don't like it. Then if he ever tells you to do it again you'll know it's him using you.

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  • WOWthatscool

    um kiss you on your head and leave you on your knees ^^ sounds like what a slavemaster does after hes done with his sex slave,oh yeah and mind coming over for a little face fucking???

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  • D512

    It's only normal of you like it. If you don't then tell him to fuck off.

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  • dude_Jones

    Please be assured that there are lots of guys with giving personalities that would shower you with affection for your intimate oral sexual attention.

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  • Justsomejerk

    He is degrading you, you should tell him to stop or leave him.

    I take offence to your last comment.

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  • AssBurgers

    Dump him, he's a disgusting pig. Go find yourself a decent bloke, you know, one who'll respect & love you; not treat you like some sex slave.

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  • Imsupernormal

    Being a sex toy is what you're there for.

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  • stupidassholeguy

    For the first time ever, I'm unsure. It the same amount of not normal and normal. I WAS THE FIRST ONE TO VOTE! I guessed yes.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    It still wouldn't be normal, but it would be *okay* to do this if you enjoyed it too. It doesn't sound like you are and it doesn't sound like he's taking any care for your comfort, so I'm going to go with the "Your bf is an asshole" option on this one

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  • joonyjoony

    I totally agree with Jimmydong, your boyfriend humiliated you little bit in front of his friends, everything else is more than normal if you enjoy together, why not? , be more proud of yourself, you're a great harmless and innocent person, You're not hurting anyone, on the contrary, it is to share your enjoyment. Keep game further, on and on, make love to your boyfriend in front of them and show them that you know how to enjoy with him, too. Try to seduce his friends be seductive and tempting , with all your irresistible sexiness, and then you control all situation on your side, that your boyfriend understand your value, to be proud of your ability for sacrificing, your femininity and all your's great value for him. That his friends are jealous of you.

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  • Jimmydong

    Do not listen to the uneducated people saying this is not normal. At one time all humans had sex whenever they wanted completely in the open with others around just like all the other species on this planet. The reason you are asking this question is because you are turned on by what is taking place and in your heart you like it and feel it is ok but you doubt and wonder because of what uneducated society tells you. What you need to do is tell your boyfriend you are turned on by this public display of sex but that he needs to be less degrading and that he needs to tell his friends to talk to you with respect. Tell him that when they act disrespectful towards you they are disrespecting him. This will get him on your side. The next time it takes place get aggressive and have full blown sex with him right in front of his friends and make them all jealous. Show your positive side.

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  • Avant-Garde

    None of this is normal. He is degrading you and you are degrading yourself by agreeing to do this.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Hiya op! Ok that was a joke but this sounds very demeaning. His friends probobly see you as a whore. To them they are getting free porn. This is also something people would do in a porno. As some of the other members have said this seems like something a master would do with his sex slave. Some people are really into this kind of thing since they find it fun. You seem to be concerned about it though. So know at this piont your are basically a sex toy to him. Not sure if you are ok with this type of thing. You should be loyal to your man. However him demeaning you in this way is another thing. You know you dont have to suck him off. Nothing says that you need to fuck him in front of everybody. That is not part of being a loyal wife.

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