My boyfriend doesnt have sex with me anymore

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When my boyfriend and i first got together, i made him wait a month and a half to have sex with me. He wanted it so bad during that time, and even after we did have sex for the first time we were having sex almost every single day. Now, he's never in the mood. He never touches me in the way he used to, he gets mad if i initiate the sex, and gets even more mad if i try talking about it. Just last night when i tried initiating sex, he said "i have never met someone who wants to have sex as much as you do". He says it is not me, and he says he is not sleeping with anyone else. He just says that he doesnt feel good or that he is tired. I have also noticed lately that he is always in a bad mood unless he's drunk. I was wondering if maybe my libido is just much higher than his, or if there is something going on.

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  • Judas_misunderstood
    13 years ago | pl

    Cheating or not, he's not into you.

    Perhaps you are shithouse in bed. Unimaginative. Dull. Reserved. Repetitive.

    Perhaps something about your personality or beliefs has him struggling to respect you.

    Perhaps he's discovering his gay side.

    I would personally have dumped you simply for having a "policy" on when I was allowed the blessing of intercourse with you, but then that's because I have no respect for someone who acts like sex is something a girl "gives" to a boy, rather than something for two people to enjoy.

    Perhaps after he calmed down having finally been given relief from his blue balls, he found those regular ole crackers weren't all that tasty after all.

    I reckon he's dumping you before the month is out.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago | pl

      ***I would personally have dumped you simply for having a "policy" on when I was allowed the blessing of intercourse with you, but then that's because I have no respect for someone who acts like sex is something a girl "gives" to a boy, rather than something for two people to enjoy.

      ---Not only did he wait, but i waited also. To me, sex is more than just something that two people "enjoy". Yes, i did want to have sex with him, but i held off until i felt comfortable that the relationship was forreal. Having sex is more of an emotional thing with me. When i have sex with a man I am giving him my all; my heart, body, and soul. I wonder what you say about the girls who give it up on the first date?

      ***I reckon he's dumping you before the month is out.

      ---This has been going on for almost two months, and i have tried to give him space and move out. Instead of letting me do so, he begged me to stay and later apologized for the way he had neglected me.

      QUESTION: Why is that everytime a woman mentions that her boyfriend will not have sex with them that people automatically assume he is cheating? I came on here to find out if any other people have experienced this and have later come to find out that maybe their partner had some type of medical condition that hindered their libido. Or maybe if it was depression. I think its safe to say that its time to leave this site and find a new forum because it seems that this site is infested with assholes who are so depressed about their problems that they turn other people's problems into the worst case scenario. It is sad really. Peace.

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      • pandabear1209
        11 years ago | pl

        Whoooa! Chill out, go get laid....oh wait your boyfriend doesn't want you anymore...go masturbate :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    It's not you it's him. Don't believe a word he says. He is more than likely cheating.

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  • oddness
    13 years ago | pl

    He's bored with you and probably cheating. Dump him.

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