My boyfriend doesn't want to lick me, is it normal?

Has he been with other girls? Tell him you'll never suck his cock again because it will damage your honor.

No, dump him. Any dude that thinks a girl is "unpure" or whatever because she's slept with other people isn't worth it.

He's a selfish jerk. I wold find a guy who makes you happy.

Thats pathetic.

How is giving head honorable at all? He should be honored that you let him near your vagina at all.

Boys....

It can work the other way too.
I had a GF who didn't like sucking me off, and in fact she never did it even once.

However I still loved going down on her even though she wouldn't reciprocate. I felt like a bee drinking nectar from her hot vagina.

It never bothered me much that she didn't go down on me because our sex life was so mind blowing, blowjobs seemed not very important.

You sucking is ok his licking is not? get rid of the self centered ignorant bum!!!

Dump him! He should find someone who doesn't want that so they can both be happy. You should find someone who wants to do that to you so you'll be happy... his reasons are disrespectful to YOUR honor.

"damage his honor" ? .-.

Unless he was joking you should dump him just for that.

I think he's a jerk. If oral sex is important to you, or if being respected by your partner is important to you, then you shouldn't waste any more time on him. Find somebody who doesn't think you're dirty, and who is as interested in your pleasure as he is in his own.

FUCK HIM, and by fuck him I mean dump him like the selfish, prideful and entitled piece of shit he is!

No it's not normal, is not like you are in public having sex. All men are dogs me included a good vagina liking is the best thing in a sexual activity, your boy friend still a boy you are not in his mind or not in love with you.
I can't wait to get a Chance to be allowed a vagina liking, just don't have it smelling like a rotten fish. A good Wash before sex is always a good idea.

Hmm...perhaps you should inform him that there ARE protective methods to giving female oral sex...and that you won't get him "dirty" if used correctly, if he's freaked about former partners. If he's still making excuses after that and saying that you damage his honor...well...maybe he should hit the road.

It's not normal, give and take.

Lol. "Damage his honour."

From this story it seems more like he's embaressed to do it and is making excuses. Don't dump him over it unless it's a major issue but play the same game as him. Say that you don't want to perform oral on to him for the same reason.

Maybe he's never really done it before or he's not very good with it. See if that's the issue. If it's not then you can make the choice of it being too much to have to deal with or not.

DOUCHEBAG ALERT!

Thats not normal, I could think of nothing better than licking my women out, dump him

I love giving and receiving oral. I think it's a normal and very nice part of making love. Think of it as the most intimate kiss you can share with your lover. His objection to going down on you is some kind of psychological hangup. So you've had other guys by age 21. Duh. Most girls have by that age. And most of us have been in the shower lots of times since, usually washing our intimate zones as carefully as the rest of us.

If oral is something you want and crave, an important part of sex to you, too, then tell him it's a kind of kiss you need. If he won't deliver, then stop going down on him and look for a different boyfriend who will share that particular pleasure with you.

I am the same way. if a girl has been with a lot of guys. I wont do it. just something you have to accept if you want to be with him. If it really bothers you its better to break up with him. Also just because you do something for someone doesn't mean they're obligated to give you anything in return. Do things because you want to not because you think you'll get something in return.

I had a girlfriend in college whose pussy smelled a bit ripe and the smell made me feel queasy when I licked her down there a couple times. I always heard that women smelled like fish down there, but she smelled far worse than that!

you've got to give some to get some
and if hes not giving you oral sex don't do it for him
oral sex for me anyway is vital and for a lot of women its an essential part of experiencing an orgasm
you really need to get this sorted out with him or resentment will soon set in
sex should get better and better the older you get as you know what you like and what gets you off
im sure that the vast majority of men out there wouldn't be so selfish and would be only too happy to give you a full sexual relationship
the fact that you've had other relationships with other men is such an issue for him shows signs of immense immaturity
okay ive only ever been with one guy and got married at 16 but if I hadn't I wouldn't of thought that 3 different partners by the age of 21 was something id of needed to apologise for
you cant have previous relationships being thrown back in your face everytime you go to bed with him
which is what it will feel like,
thats clearly not right
id seriously want it resolving soon or you've really got to ask yourself some serious questions over having a long term relationship with someone that's clearly showing you no respect and hurting you over previous relationships which you obviously don't deserve

Omg same case here. Is it because it tastes bad or smells weird? How do u make it better and appealing?

Why the hell would you dump him. I used to be scared of giving girl oral because I'd think I'd do bad. So I kept making excuses. You shouldn't force something or dump someone for something with so little meaning. There could be hundreds of good things in their relationship and just because one bad thing you tell her to dump him. That's bullshit.