My boyfriend cheated. i feel like this hurt will never go away!

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My boyfriend cheated on me and admitted it. I should be happy he confessed right? I'm not happy and the thought of them crosses my mind every day and he told me this over a month ago. I was pregnant but i lost the baby i think it had to do with the medication they gave me for the STD he passed to me, could have been stress too though i don't know what caused me to miscarry. It makes me sick!! I don't understand how he could do this he says its because he thought i was doing it to him witch i wasn't i love him too much to. He says he will never talk to her again and that he blew her off by saying, he doesn't love her he loves me.. Sure i can believe it but how do i know he won't talk to her again. I want to know what she looks like i want to know who she is... That is NOT normal rite? Will this hurt ever go away?

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    This guy have you an STD and cheated on you and you still love him? Don't be a fool, get rid of him.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago | pl

    There's your problem.

    You're having unprotected sex with a man who has STDs from other women.

    And instead of focusing on getting yourself healthy - in body and mind - you're getting wound up in the drama of whether or not he will cheat on you again.

    Take a break from relationships and sex - other than masturbation. Decide who you are and who you want to be before you dive back in.

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  • sandys213
    10 years ago | pl

    As long as you have him in your life the pain will never go away. You are a complete fool for keeping him after he cheated and gave you an STD. If you dump that trash now you will not lose your self respect and the pain will go away. If you keep that trash you are just setting yourself up for more STDs and to be cheated on over and over again.

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  • LoveLVR
    13 years ago | pl

    I have been with this guy for almost 5 year, and i have a 19 month child with him...i just don't want this to be a waist of my life...

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  • Peter_s
    13 years ago | pl

    The hurt will definitely fo away, in fact you will feel embarrassed you ever felt anything for this loon.

    Just be wary of committing any feelings to the wrong guy in future. I lot of boys are only after one thing, and once they have it, they will move on to the next.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    The hurt will go away some time after he does. Not before. So send him packing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    PSA - EVERYONE ON THIS WEBSITE: BE CAREFUL OF "BUDTHEWISE" - HE IS A FIRST CLASS CREEP, WOMAN ABUSER, RACIST AND IGNORAMUS ... AND PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO ANY OF HIS CRAPPY AND ABUSIVE ADVICE. PLEASE!!!

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