My boyfriend and i

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I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We live together for the most part...I am under 21 and he is over 21. He definately likes to drink and go out, so that leaves me at home while he's at the bar. Im not worried about what he does at the bar, because he comes home to me everynight and his friends tell me pretty much everything. What bothers me is that he doesn't make time to take me out. I don't expect him to take me out all the time or to spend large amounts of money on me. What I do want though is for him to take me out once in a while to go eat, see a movie, or go to a concert, or even a fight. I love ufc and mma. Anyway, he NEVER takes me out, he says its because I'm not 21 and that things will change when I'm 21. He says he likes bars and doesn't like to go out to eat and see movies. Sometimes, i get really mad at him for not taking the initiative to make me feel wanted, but then i feel guilty because he does try to spend time with me when he is home or at his family's houses. Is it normal for me to be mad at him though?

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    If he still takes time out to spend with you and pays you attention, like you said he does. Let him have the bar to himself for awhile it lets him get a brake from you for a while and escape. Im not saying you are bad or he hates you most people need some form of escape or brake from thier partner every now and than. If you know if he isn't doing anything bad id say let him have it and enjoy it with him when you are 21. If it is still really bothering you just talk to him about it obviously.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Tell him to grow up and be a man. A real man takes care if his woman and makes her feel wanted and needed. Your man definitely is a waste of space.

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  • blndgrl18
    13 years ago

    @lemondrop im like bobby flay in the kitchen lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Your a chick and you love ufc and want to go clubbing??? I thing i want to marry you :0 do u make good sandwhiches??

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    ^yeah you are still young. And men are even more immature at that age. Don't expect to have a real relationship for at least a few more years.

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  • gako
    13 years ago

    How old are you? You sound pretty young. Maybe you shouldn't be in such a seriois relationship at your age.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      im 19 turning 20

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  • iswhatitis
    13 years ago

    Hes not taking ur feelings seriously... compromise is the key. He should be lucky to have u and sounds like hes taking u for granted... sometimes in relationships u have to every now nd then do what the other person wants to do.

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