It sounds to me like he is a very selfish and thoughtless person. Not only is he needlessly putting his life on the line, but yours as well.
If I were you, I would not ride with him when he drinks and take a cab if necessary. This will do 2 things; 1) keep you safe and 2) let him know his behavior is totally unacceptable to you.
Alternately, just refuse to go out with him if he is going to drink.
Truthfully though, I think you should dump this guy. He obviously doesn't care enough about you to get you home safely, no matter how he feels about his own life. You can't be stupid enough to imagine you could actually have a long term relationship with him, leading to marriage. Even if he lives long enough, would you want him driving your kids around drunk?
So get real and tell him that his behavior is totally unacceptable to you and if it doesn't stop immediately, you're gone.
My boyfriend always drives under influence
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It sounds to me like he is a very selfish and thoughtless person. Not only is he needlessly putting his life on the line, but yours as well.
If I were you, I would not ride with him when he drinks and take a cab if necessary. This will do 2 things; 1) keep you safe and 2) let him know his behavior is totally unacceptable to you.
Alternately, just refuse to go out with him if he is going to drink.
Truthfully though, I think you should dump this guy. He obviously doesn't care enough about you to get you home safely, no matter how he feels about his own life. You can't be stupid enough to imagine you could actually have a long term relationship with him, leading to marriage. Even if he lives long enough, would you want him driving your kids around drunk?
So get real and tell him that his behavior is totally unacceptable to you and if it doesn't stop immediately, you're gone.