My dad does that but what suprises me is that he is a damn good driver even when he is drunk, it used to worry me but now I couldn't care less since I no longer get rides from him and stuff. You could hire a cab or make transport arrangements for everyone at the party. I'm assuming you'll be sober when he drives you home etc so as the one in control at that particular moment If I were you I'd take over the wheel when your boyfriend has been drinking. It's really up to you and it's pretty straight forward, ride with a drunk person and risk being killed or killing someone... the choice is pretty simple.
If he refuses to not stop drinking and driving then you really have some decisions to make because it highlights the kind of person he is. I hope you sought it out.
It would be great to drive my boyfriend home myself,except I don't have a driving licence yet. And obviously, he'd like me to have it asap just for that. About hiring a cab, I usually don't have money enough and of course, he won't pay for that. He prefers spending all of his money into alcohol for everyone. But we're trying to find some solutions. I made it clear that if his behavior won't stop, I quit.
Are you not old enough to get a drivers license? Your boyfriend sounds like a real winner to me. He can't afford a safe ride for the two of you because he would rather spend it all on drinking instead. Is he really selfish enough to rather put the two of you and everyone else on the road at risk because he "prefers spending all of his money into alcohol for everyone" That right there should serve as a red flag to you.
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My dad does that but what suprises me is that he is a damn good driver even when he is drunk, it used to worry me but now I couldn't care less since I no longer get rides from him and stuff. You could hire a cab or make transport arrangements for everyone at the party. I'm assuming you'll be sober when he drives you home etc so as the one in control at that particular moment If I were you I'd take over the wheel when your boyfriend has been drinking. It's really up to you and it's pretty straight forward, ride with a drunk person and risk being killed or killing someone... the choice is pretty simple.
If he refuses to not stop drinking and driving then you really have some decisions to make because it highlights the kind of person he is. I hope you sought it out.
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It would be great to drive my boyfriend home myself,except I don't have a driving licence yet. And obviously, he'd like me to have it asap just for that. About hiring a cab, I usually don't have money enough and of course, he won't pay for that. He prefers spending all of his money into alcohol for everyone. But we're trying to find some solutions. I made it clear that if his behavior won't stop, I quit.
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Are you not old enough to get a drivers license? Your boyfriend sounds like a real winner to me. He can't afford a safe ride for the two of you because he would rather spend it all on drinking instead. Is he really selfish enough to rather put the two of you and everyone else on the road at risk because he "prefers spending all of his money into alcohol for everyone" That right there should serve as a red flag to you.