My boyfriend

Hi my boyfriend and I have.m been together almost a year (Ive cheated on him) yes but I'm trying to try hard to gain his trust again and make him feel good again and he said I deserve to be called a slut if I acted like one? Is that true bc that makes me feel shitty and I'm trying to not lie and cheat on him and while I'm trying he's doing meth occasionally with his friend. Idk what I should do.

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  • There is nothing wrong with being a slut. The problem is the doped up boyfriend. Get rid of him hun and enjoy all the guys you can. Have fun!

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  • Please break up with him ❤

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    • I agree, this sounds like a terrible relationship. Break up with him and if you get into another relationship don't cheat.

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      • No guy should make you feel that way even if you screwed up. You're giving the right effort, I'm sure it'll help you out in the future

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  • It's quite normal to lose that sense of love and attraction you have for a person. Then once you crave it, you try to feed that hunger. Wether you control yourself or not, it's normal and doesn't make you a slut. A slut is some who has many sexual partners, however you've only cheated once. Therefore you are not a slut. But you need to work better on controlling yourself. From what you've said, he doesn't seem like a very good boyfriend. If you still care about him, tell him and try to help. But if he pushes you away, don't resist.

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  • If you cheated on him and still want to then there is something wrong. Don't bother wasting any more time with him and just break up already. There are loads of boys out there, go and find one that's better for you. You see boys are like shoes. If you avoid wearing them and choose to wear something else then you obviously don't like them and should give them away to make space for new shoes.

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    • That's a different analogy of the situation but very fitting. I hope she finds the perfect shoes someday :).

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  • I don't get why so many people tell you to dump him cuz of meth. They don't know his exact reactions and behaviour while doing meth, but still they fucking talk shit or assume shit. Idiots...Some people do drugs and are perfectly fine with that.

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  • Anyone here take adderall?? It's legal meth that is suppose to help you if you have ADD. I've done both, just makes me hyper as fuck, nothing more. On the cheating end, it'll be a while before you get trust back, it'll take time and patience on both ends to get that back. But if the sex with him is bad, break up with him. If not, talk to him to see if he's willing to have an open relationship and both parties have to consent to whoever they're about to fuck and both of you know about it so that way it's not hiding it or being secretive. So if you enjoy having sex with other men, that may be your best option. If not, just continue doing what you're doing and see where things go and how much trust he has in you after a while.

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  • you will never gain his trust.....cuz you cant trust yourself ...... All I can say is look in the mirror and see who is looking back at you.

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  • Meth is shit no wonder your cheating on him get rid of him probably doing some cheating on the O'l meth anyway

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    • Good point, guys on meth will fuck anything. She is probably exposed to a bunch of stuff from the meth whores he is banging while on it.

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  • Maybe ya'll should break up, hmm?

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  • Find a guy that isn't a doper and see if you can manage not to cheat on him too. Then you will know if you are a slut or not.

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  • both of your relationship in both end it will turn out worse. Think the consequences: You have cheated on him, you made a wound in his heart and gaining his trust back will be impossible because you already lost your integrity as his girlfriend. Your boyfriend becoming drugs/meth addict and making friend gave him bad influence. Worse case scenario he'll lead your life to ruin.
    I'm saying this don't want to making doubt of yourself and I hope the truth will set you free of this lifestyle you made a mistake. You have chance to redeem yourself and God bless

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