My birth was an accident

My parents didn't want a kid, my mom was on birth control pills. Those failed, and here I am. Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Um, your conception may have been an accident, and that is normal, but I'm pretty sure after you were conceived they had every intention of birthing you, otherwise you wouldn't be here!

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  • my parents ...ahem well my dad didn't want me. my mom did. i guess. i dno. my dad's a hardcore asshole. he calls me all sorts of names and thinksim the worst child on earth. i don't even do drugs. i am married and have a daughter. he thinks my daughter has no future just cause i didn't finish college. i dropped out to raise her and her father supports me financially and physically. it is normal. don't feel so down on yourself. if your parents love you wyou will know.
    i also don't know why some idiot parents tell their children they were a mistake. if we were why didn't they get an abortion when they had the chance?see we were not a mistake. they wanted us because we are here.

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  • Cancun… spring break 1989…

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  • It was the late seventies. My parents were both really poor and bored. They really really liked sex and vodka.They had no tv and my brother was at my bubbies. So here I am.

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  • Ehh planned kids aren't near as exciting

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  • My son was an "accident" but I chose to have him, gave birth to him, and love him more than I ever thought possible! No less than a "planned" child!

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  • Welcome to how the real world works...haha. That's how about all of us got here...

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  • F like 90 percent more like 99 percent...... Prob because bp makes all condoms

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  • You're not an accident you're a pleasant suprise. I was a pleasant suprise :)

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  • Like 90% of kids are accidents

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  • You even failed an abortion?

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  • Hahaha its normal and I'm sure your parents love you don't see yourself as the result of failed birth control think of yourself as a happy surprise I know I was lol

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  • unplanned pregnancies are totally normal. my brother was planned, but i was a mistake.

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  • I was a huge mistake my mom was married when she had my twin sis and I but she wasn't married to my dad!! My mom offered to give us up for adoption so she could stay married to her husband but he left her She blamed us for it everyday growning up but I just tell her now when she brings it up that it was her who cheated and her who couldn't keep her legs shut its the same with your mom if she spent more time upright and less time on her back you wouldn't be here.....But don't let her call you a mistake she may not of planned you but the big picture did

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  • Most kids aren't planned, dude, and no birth control is 100% effective. Shame on your parents for not understanding this. So uh... Yeah, totally normal.

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  • Lucky both my parents didn't want me and now I am being abused because of it

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  • this scares the shit outta me. i absolutely DONT want children cuz i have so much to do in life. i have to achieve my goals to truly be happy with myself and when that happens i'll think about having kids. if i EVER get a girl pregnant by mistake then i'll lose my frcikin mind. maybe or maybe not its normal. my aunt had heer 2nd child and she had her tubes tied

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  • It's true - if all children were planned there'd be few people walking the face of the earth!

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  • Most babies are not planned, but parents shouldn't tell their kids this, not normally anyway

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  • yea its normal just most parents dont tell there kids that

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  • My daughter was an accident and my son was planned and I love them both equally. Most pregnancies are unplanned but that's doesn't mean they were unwanted. Just because your parents didn't plan u doesn't mean they didn't want u or love u any less!!

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  • ^ haha

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  • Why would they tell you that? And yes, most people are accidents! My oldest was an accident but that doesn't mean I don't love here and am not happy she is here!

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