My bf is on and off w smoking & i

Ick get out now, find someone your compatible with

First thing to do is stop letting him treat you like the unwanted red headed stepchild. Its obvious he doesn't care about your feelings or what you don't like to be around. I'm like you, I HATE being in an area full of smokers when I'm a non-smoker. We all come into the world as non smokers. Yet it seems most smokers feel they have the right to smoke when or wherever they so desire even if those around them don't like it. He is pretty much saying "F-you" he does not seem to respect you if he can't either take them somewhere else or quit them all together. Myself- I CANNOT STAND KISSING A FEMALE THAT SMOKES. Theres that nasty aftertaste somewhere between ass and sweaty gym socks that bern wore for 5 days.

Its a battle. Be supportive of him quitting.

Smoking can be addictive. Weed usually isnt with most people, but I dont know his case.

And it's really his choice whether he wants to smoke weed or not. He can do it for you, but he doesnt have to.

Unless he's addicted like I said, but thats different, and I dont know.

You need to stop being on his case about smoking cigarettes if he's trying to stay sober!!

You can get over him smoking cigarettes!

Alcohol can ruin things and is way more likely to kill him sooner than cigarettes!!

Maybe once he's had a full 5 or 10 years clean and sober from alcohol and drugs then maybe he will have the willpower to try to cut back on cigarettes

He can always try vaping if he want to try to cut back - I have an ex boyfriend who tried that

But be a supportive girlfriend and tell him that you are proud of him being sober from alcohol and you want to encourage that - and that as long as he stays clean and sober from alcohol you won't complain about his smoking anymore - and promise that you won't make a big deal about it or even complain when he smells like smoke -

Maybe then he will come around to deciding when to quit on his own!

You catch more flies with honey!!!!