My bf has a really thin penis

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ok so im 19 and my bf is 20, so i am not the tightest in the world but im not loose. i may be a bit but i am not extremely loose. so my bf has a really thin penis, its like a dutchie.
when we have sex i cant even feel it.
he is my second bf, my ex's was huge in girth i was with him for 2 yrs. but we didnt get along it was all sex. so i was used to that and now i have the greatest relationship with my current bf, he is theee best. our relationship is amazing but when it comes to sex it really sucks. i never cum or have an orgasm. and im sure if i dont feel him inside me he must deff feel that im loose which means he isnt enjoying it either right?
so i give him lots of oral.
should i talk to him about it?
i mean i would also mention my looseness.

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    yeah ask him how he feels about it, good communication is a must.

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    • DocGeorge
      9 years ago

      Talking about it is a good idea; he may be unaware really and may have some ideas he can try to help handle the situation. Also, this is a little off-topic, but I like to encourage guys to remember to take better care of the health of their tools; using a superior penis health crème can help a guy get amino acids directly to his member. Good luck!

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  • TotalAspie
    12 years ago

    I don't know what's considered average width, so I couldn't really answer. (There is a defined short length that's considered a clinical condition.)

    As for any tightness issues of your vagina, there is something known as Kegel exercise that can be done to increase tightness, and possess an array of health benefits.

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    Couldn't even feel it?!

    LMFAOOOOOOOO. Dying laughing right now.

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    • BigPnes
      10 years ago

      Poor LITTLE man

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  • Exa
    13 years ago

    maybe you could give him some not so subtle hints to try using his hands or something in order to properly satisfy you. Heck, even average size really can't satisfy a woman alone, it's just simple anatomy. I mean, I have a disturbingly small one as well, but I still keep my fiancee satisfied one way or another. A penis isn't the only tool at his disposal, is what I'm trying to say.

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    • Exa
      13 years ago

      For instance, there are at least 4 universally confirmed structures in the female genitals that can cause an orgasm, 6 if you count some slightly debated ones. (clitoris glans, skene gland, anterior fornix (a-spot), labia minorum. with the 2 debatable spots being the graffenberg spot (g-spot) and Recto-uterine pouch (back-spot.))
      have him do a little research on it. If he really does care about you, he will jump at the chance of being able to know he's satisfying you.

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    • ouchers
      13 years ago

      thanks for yes, i know a penis isnt the only thing he can use. but ive had two men in my life and fingers dont really do much they just hurt me. but i have been giving him hints. but he tries so im happy with that. Plus his size has been increasing which is what confused me. well it usually increases when he drinks. when he gets more than tipsy but not drunk. so i think he was just really nervous and couldnt focus on getting a 100 % full erection. and alcohol makes him get loose. but then i dont want him to depend on alcohol for him to feel comfortable.

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      • flynhigh
        12 years ago

        how thick is he??

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  • regane
    13 years ago

    There is a medical term for this it's called a "pencil dick"

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  • snuffy
    12 years ago

    You need to talk to him. Tell him that you like to be fucked with a dildo, or that you can only cum with oral/g-spot stimulation... make this man earn his strips.. otherwise it will only become more and more of a problem.

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  • jimdog
    13 years ago

    Fuck his mum

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Lol you prolly aren't loose. He is just prolly shitty in bed. Guys with big penises who suck in bed have been known to not he able to be felt in a woman. So it's not you, it's him.

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  • Hamish
    4 years ago

    My name is Hamish. I'm from Melbourne, Australia. I have a very thin penis. My length is ok at about 5.5 inches but my circumference at the thickest point is only 3.5 inches, near the base and it's all down hill from there. My head is pretty small too. I've never ever made a woman come during intercourse. My wife although she loves me, fucks a lot of other guys and usually seeks out well hung guys. She has fucked some very large cocks including a guy called Danny who is 10" and 7.5" around the middle of his cock. she said Danny can carry her around the room while he is fully in her and she loves fucking him. she also fucks guys in our bed when Im at work. Im trying to come to terms with it and find pleasure in being a cuck. I know I will lose her eventually. I know she finds it very difficult to enjoy penetration with me. She always asks for doggie style, she never ever has her legs fully opened for me, they are always a bit closed to help her narrow her vaginal canal a bit to try and get some feeling. I'm such a sad fucking loser when it comes to pleasing women. I hate my life and I hate my thin fucken dick.

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  • Memehoney
    12 years ago

    Most guys do get fully aroused and hard when they drink. Seems to me he has been nervous.. The first time my bf and I had sex it was horrible I barely felt anything. Then once we were comfortable with each other the sex was great even to wear he gave my numerous orgasms, made mi legs shake, and hurt me down there in a good way. What u have to do now is make him comfortable... How u go about doing that has nothing to do with sex it involves the partnership, friendship, and communication between u 2. I have some questions though which could also be the reason for his problem... Are u among one of the most attractive females he's dated? The first time you 2 had sex did it differ from the times after? And lastly how many girls has he been with? Hope this helps.....

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