My best guy friend and i...

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OK, this is my first story/submission, so go easy on me :) So my best guy friend (Jimmy) and I have known each other for almost 10 years, and I like him a lot, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. He barely says anything to me when I go over to his house with family over (but he will look at me a lot), but when we are alone, he'll ask how I'm doing, how school is, etc. We'll also hug ad kiss, but when someone is coming downstairs he'll stop. I kind of know what's going on, but I'm shy to ask him if he likes me back. Also, if he doesn't like me back... I'm kind of OK with it. Is this weird? Normal? Thanks for looking at my story. (BTW, If i have too many commas, I'm kind of bad at punctuality, lol.)
Sincerely yours,
Deborah

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  • aussiejames
    13 years ago | pl

    Wow people are so fucked up. You hug and kiss but not sure if he likes you. Yeah i always hug and kiss girls i don't like and boy do i go to town on the ones i hate. Rip em up good!

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  • alexisfreak
    13 years ago | pl

    You should really let him know you like him. Strip or something. He'll definately like you back. He's a guy.

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  • mybuttholesmellsofshit
    13 years ago | pl

    give up some ass ya tease

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  • dailylife
    12 years ago | pl

    From personal experience this is all i can say:
    #1 If he is really your best friend, he wouldn't kiss you if he didn't like and respect you
    #2 Talk to him. Find out why he's ignoring you around family when he's known you for 10 years..
    #3 Where do you think it's going? do you just like him or do you want him to be your boyfriend?

    just think about what you want first, and why he will kiss you but not talk to you around family, is basically the points I'm trying to make.

    Hope it helps :)

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  • 7051990
    13 years ago | pl

    I'm going through something very similar although we haven't known eachother for nearly as long. We are very close and kiss and hug and stuff and when drunk have gone further but then we never talk about it. Also we're never that affectionate in front of other people althoughi'm pretty sure most of our other friends know something is going on. All I can say is that reading your story it seems like you should just talk about it and get everything out in the open. I just wish I could take my own advice lol

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  • jessicababyboo09
    14 years ago | pl

    i know exactly what your talking about. me and my best guy friend do the same thing. like im really good with his family &nd stuff and im always around[ family events stuff like that] and when everyone is around he dosent say much to me a few looks thats it. but when where alone its a whole nother story making out cuddling hugging touching etc. its hard to deal with beacuse i like my best guy friend as well..bit the thing is you dont want to mess up your friend ship if you take your friendship to a bf/gf thing just be careful and talk eveything out after all hes your best guy friend 1st

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  • cmarie123
    14 years ago | pl

    This was my soon to be husband and I four years ago.Just say something. Has this topic seriously never come up before --even hypothetically-- in the 10 years you have known each other? I mean EVER? If not I think you should most certainly find a way to bring it up. He is going to love you no matter what.

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