My best friends hurts me so much

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Why is it that I feel the need to not let go of my best friend even tho he constantly hurts me. He claims he never does but he does by his actions and or words and it frustrates me because hes my closest and best friend. I guess Im not a good friend of his like he is to me. I try everything to please him. I buy him things all the time, pay for tons of things to help him out and he cant even message me back or keep a promise to me. Is it normal to just accept this or am i stupid and should try to break it off?

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  • 53739
    7 years ago | pl

    I have no idea what you're trying to say.

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  • whitopia
    13 years ago | pl

    He's using you hun.. Sorry i have that problem all the time with people.
    I think what you need to do is confront him, and talk about how you feel..
    If he doesn't change then break it off with him. Theres plenty of other best friends you can make that will treat you right.. :)

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  • florist
    13 years ago | pl

    break it off

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  • SomeRandomPerson
    13 years ago | pl

    He doesn't sound like your best friend. He does however sound like a person who is using you. Choose your friends wisely.

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  • CharleSD
    13 years ago | pl

    I had a friend like that I really cared about him and he just.. nothing. Don't pay attention to him and try to find new better friends who really appreciate you and not want just your money. Maybe , when he loses you he'll realize what a good friend he's lost.
    Hope to be helpful.

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  • Jennalee
    13 years ago | pl

    I know how you feel I recently went through that stage with my bestfriend.I felt that she did not appeicate me enought,Then one day I just came out with it and finaly told her how I felt after months.Now are friendship is stronger than ever.Maybe thats what you need to do?

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  • stlolth
    14 years ago | pl

    Of course he takes advantage of you when you act like his slave. Most people don't have the common decency not to exploit others when they can. He sees that you're dependent of him and his opinion and uses you, since you'll always come back. This is not friendship and only you can stop it since it's not likely he'll change.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago | pl

      I know deep down you are prolly correct but i cant not watching someone suffer and hurt when i can fix it. I have always put my own hardship over someone I care about.

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      • hermione
        11 years ago | pl

        what you need to realise is that there is a friend in greater need and that is you, if he cant put you first sometimes then what kind of friend is he.
        if you really want to know if he cares about you then dont call him for a few days and dont offer to pay or do things for him if he is your friend than he will step up to the plate if not then hes a loser your better off without

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