My best friend may be lesbian for me

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I have a friend ok I have known her since 6th grade and as we got older she seemed to be more attracted to me all through high school she would text me and tell me she wanted me but had a boyfriend and still dose till this day we are both 18 but her feeling for me seem to get stronger everytime she sees me she cant stop touchn my stomache or trying to lift my shirt up this is weird to me beacuse Im straight and I dont want to be mean and tell her not to touch me I think shes a lesbian for me she tells me she wants me and then tells everyone shes straight idk you would have to be there to understand what Im talking about its weird shes a lesbian with me but with everyone else shes straight im confused do you think her feelings for me are normla or that her friendship for me is?????

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Let her do it, I find that lesbian sex is 10 times more pleasurable than straight sex. If you haven't tried it, try it. If not, try to let her down slowly.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I'm kinda in the same situation as your friend is. I feel that way about one of my best friend, but I don't eccesively touch her or anything like that. I just like when were together and when she hugs me. So, if I was ur friend I would be sad if you told me you didn't wanna be les, but if you don't dump her as a friend and support her, she might move on. It might just be a phase.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    You should tell her outright in a nice but firm manner that you are straight and although you appreciate her friendship, that's all it will ever be.

    But if she has a boyfriend, I'd say she's probably still figuring out her own sexuality since she tries to do that stuff with you.

    I had a friend sort of like this once although she wasn't as intense as your friend, it was obvious she was attracted to girls even though she'd deny it and get all pissed off if me or any of our circle of friends mentioned it.

    Turns out she's actually bi now.

    So just tell her firmly, it isn't going to happen ever.

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  • Scaper
    13 years ago | pl

    Why not let go of yourself and just be full on lesbian with her for a bit, you'll probably like it, but if it's not your thing then just tell her =]

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    • Raych
      13 years ago | pl

      I dont think I could do that Im straight and she's not my type we are just friend but she cant seem to get that through her head

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