SHE'S the one that insecure! Oh dear. And that fact that if you confront her, she turns it around on you and says you like fighting, is equally disturbing. I think you need to have enough respect for yourself here to confront this problem. Calmly tell her how her comments make you feel and although she might accuse you of all sorts at first, I imagine it will sink in at some point that she's been unreasonable. If it doesn't, then she's obviously oblivious to her own behaviour and never looks inward, or is in flat out denial mode. Neither are ideal.
My 'best friend' makes me hate myself?
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SHE'S the one that insecure! Oh dear. And that fact that if you confront her, she turns it around on you and says you like fighting, is equally disturbing. I think you need to have enough respect for yourself here to confront this problem. Calmly tell her how her comments make you feel and although she might accuse you of all sorts at first, I imagine it will sink in at some point that she's been unreasonable. If it doesn't, then she's obviously oblivious to her own behaviour and never looks inward, or is in flat out denial mode. Neither are ideal.